The only parents I know who had tons of kids and are well off came from families of at least 4 children and were very strictly working class Catholics. Mine included (well half on my mom's side, my dad is one of three kids and his family was better off than hers). Which is not to discount your anecdata, just sharing…

Super into this guy, about 22 years older than me, divorced and remarried, literally just a crush to daydream about when i'm bored at work. Biggest turn off is when he talks about his little kids. It's like my whole body just goes cold.

Not poor, but never thought the gifts were things people actually did

Maybe it's because I'm still not out of college but I thought house guests bringing gifts wasn't actually a thing people do. Even when my parents have people over, the only one to bring stuff was the German exchange student.

Oh, no, I totally get that. It does feel sucky and gross to willingly be around something like that. I hope things turn around for your family soon so you don't have to play "loyal" to her anymore.

I've had it done to me and I still do it to people who aren't good for me. I don't owe them anything and the people who froze me out didn't owe me anything. It hurts, yeah, but in the long run everyone's better for it.

nuh uh, if someone is toxic and you need them out the freeze them. Any other way just makes it worse.

it says you know how to survive

fantasie tends to hold me in better, they're my perfect every day bra.

although in the beginning i was really weirded out by it, i got used to it pretty quickly. and it beat going back to shitty bras that didn't fit

that's why i love them. unmolded cups feel like they give me no support. molded cups make all my clothes look good because my chest is where it should be, not six inches below the mark.

the woman who fitted me the very first time ran me through the process of getting the band right. basically it needs to be comfortable on the outermost hooks. you should be able to fit your fist flat against your back (with your knuckles touching your back) under your band. it should also not come up high in the back,…

Freya is overrated, but pretty. The comfiest bras I have ever worn were Fantasie which have sales a lot at nordstrom, for what it's worth. Ever since i got fitted I haven't bought anything not from a boutique/trusted brands because i'm so scared to waste money on a bra that sends me back to my high school days of…

I'm a 34FF and i hate wearing anything that isn't a molded cup, if thats what you mean by padded

i prefer bald on women and trimmed on men.

For almost a year now I've been getting minor yeast infections immediately after my period. It's the change ph balance.

Definitely. I only get fitted at boutiques. I went from a 34DD to a 34FF/34G/34H (Depending on the brand. Freya and Fantasie i'm a FF, Waco I'm a 34G an I can't remember the other two off the top of my head).

woah. so different.

I'm still holding out hope that Damon will get killed off. I know it's not happening (and i think Delena was endgame in the books but idk) but still, a girl can dream about rapists and abusers getting gone, can't she?

well, considering all i know is that it's a book that's basically about an incredibly unhealthy relationship and basically sexual assault, i think he's got enough experience playing that role as damon on tvd.