Nope, totally fine advice! I’m trying to work on it. I should go to therapy, but I’m trying to just accept myself more on my own and work on advocating for my needs in the relationship. My bf doesn’t do the kinds of things you said. I think he has a kind of low sex drive and is bad at hints that aren’t “do me now!” So…

I took it immediately! Fingers crossed!

Word. I’ve always felt like I could get most of the benefits of a relationship from platonic friends. The one I can’t? Sex.

Are you my boyfriend? He joked about sex being work early in our relationship and I’m still kind of hung up on it. Sometimes I also don’t feel up to the work of it (for me, emotional work) but I don’t want to insult him and tell him that because I don’t think he’d get it.

I think this is true! My boyfriend and I don’t do it very much but when we do I want it again the next couple days (but never ask for it because stupid anxiety so we end up not doing it again for another month).

I think we’ve discussed this, but this is how I feel/live. I think I am more sad about not feeling desired/realizing we could spend time having sex but we spend it on our phones or whatever than the actual infrequent sex part. My partner and I also talk about wanting to do it more and then just don’t.

Use a daily shower spray to keep mold at bay is my MO, though I can’t seem to convince the boyfriend.

...I had no idea that towels and sheets from Italy are fancy. The more you know.

I definitely just went there today to obtain two storage containers.

Yeah, my boyfriend told me this was okay and then it came out all wrinkly. Honestly though, left to my own devices I’d have a plastic curtain with no liner. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Also, you can use one per item, not per whole order. I have a stockpile.

I’ve always been pretty paranoid, but recently I’ve had a couple encounters with men who try to flag down my car to ask me a question and I feel so uncomfortable. One of them I just acted like I didn’t see him and kept driving (a sketchier part of town) and the other I did roll down my window and help him out. It…

I just...I can’t do it. I struggle to call a doctor to make an appointment for a general health check up (like a dermatologist). There’s no way I could make an appointment for pain. I mean, I get that would absolve me of dealing with my bikini line for a decent amount of time, but. Pain. Also nakedness around other…

I mean, Ringling Circus is now going to have its elephants in a sanctuary. There are plenty of aquariums that do good research work and attract visitors without having to turn the animals into a trick show, so perhaps they should/could go that way.

It’s funny that that’s your perspective, because I find that every time an article is posted about an alternative method it’s time for everyone to ridicule and laugh at any method that isn’t the pill (or the IUD)! Also, I actually find that people, at least in person, don’t talk about their problems with the pill…

I’m pretty sure my boyfriend’s electric razor is way better than mine so I’m considering just getting a second head for his, which I didn’t realize was an option until recently. I did steal his little beard/nose hair/whatever trimmer for my little facial hairs haha.

I’ve never had anything waxed so I don’t really know what the hot factor is like. It wouldn’t have occurred to me that its hot enough to cause additional discomfort during the experience! I have heard horror stories about skin being pulled off during waxing. *shudder*

I live in FL and see people post about going to Sea World quite a bit. Also, I know someone active in conservation work who has an annual pass as advertised by her car magnet. :/

Still hurts though, yeah?

Electric razor for the lady garden for the win! I don’t know anyone else who uses one for that purpose and while it doesn’t get as close as a regular razor would I get less irritation and am confident I won’t cut anything off.