I worked at Coldstone and was paid well above tipped minimum but below the non-tipped minimum. Obviously if the owner had declared no tips this probably would’ve had to change, but I’m just saying this because not all non-servers are paid full minimum.

My boyfriend made fun of me for this so now I’ve changed my ways. It’s a Midwestern thing, yes?

Yeah, I can't get into lip color for me. Always looks weird. :/

Came here to ask that...

I refer to Miranda as "my girl Miranda". I love her! Kacey Musgraves is my fav woman of country right now though.

Yep, when I see anything shared that says “lad” I shudder a bit because I’ve seen some of the content of “lad mags”. My friends seem to share innocuous stuff from those sites though, luckily.

Ugh, I was at a basketball game when someone passed out (probably just locked knees as we were all standing in close quarters) and someone next to them yelled for assistance. The people closer to the aisle just seemed incapable of passing the message along to the ushers. I was a few rows behind and I knew there was a…

Yeah, what was that BS about women worshiping their fathers? Some do, but what a generalization to make.

I didn't know these were a thing but I'm on the hunt for some now!

I'm with you, girl. I'm also kind of hypersensitive about it. I don't do bandeaus or bralettes, in large part because I'm worried about nippleage, but I could.

I'm with you, girl. I'm also kind of hypersensitive about it. I don't do bandeaus or bralettes, in large part because I'm worried about nippleage, but I could.

Yeah, I think some bullying comes from a desire to be cruel (particularly when violence is involved), whereas other (possibly most) bullying comes from a desire to personally fit in/an insecurity within oneself/fear of the other. The latter would lead to an attempt to rationalize the guilt away.

Yep. I remember participating in some unkind behind-the-back name calling in high school that got around to the person and I still feel incredibly guilty about it (not a trans student, but it was still very unkind). Via Facebook this person seems to be doing fine now, but I can’t imagine if how many of us treated her…

HATE IT.

So I bought some of these because they were on super sale at Target and I had friends coming into town for a weekend. I had to choose between the "Tribal", "Love", and "Standard" (or something) pack. I chose the standard one because it was things like chains and stripes and stars. I'm sure tons of Cochella…

Yeah, it’s tough. Luckily my boyfriend didn’t hesitate to say it was fine for me to go off the pill, but it’s like he knows nothing about contraceptive options at all. He asked me about the male birth control pill because he thought it was something he could start taking. I didn’t mention dry orgasms so I don’t know…

Oh right. I should’ve mentioned that she was in a very small bikini and the appeal of the video was to ogle her body, not to admire her dancing abilities.

I’d been told that they can roll over on you and hold you underwater because they are so big. To kill you, you might have to also panic so much that it prevents you from swimming out from under them. Maybe it’s more of a danger when there’s multiple manatees. I never really thought the whole thing through, I just…

I live/grew up in coastal Florida and was always taught that manatees could in fact drown a person in play. I’m pretty sure this was also stated by a prominent marine research institution. Maybe it’s mostly hypothetical and meant to scare people away from manatees for the manatees’ sake.

Pro tip: to pack lotion/moisturizer/etc lightly, use contact lens cases. Might not be enough for 2 weeks, but for some trips/items it's a great way to save space in your little 311 bag.