Ding ding ding!

I'd bet money on that.

I had masks, too, Kate! Boxes of them! From last year’s wildfires! Which I then used for Covid-19! And then received masks from work for the pandemic! Which I then used for the wildfires!

What I want to know is where lil Trey Falwell got the whiskey he and his friend were drinking. Because Jerry shouldn’t have any kind of alcohol (excuse me, black water) in his home, considering he’s a Baptist and was the head of a school that expels students for drinking even if they’re of age.

Ted Haggard had meth and male prostitutes.

I had an eating disorder for a large part of my life. I’ve since realized that my body will be at the weight it wants to be no matter what I do. I take after the heavier side of my family. Life goes on. It’s unfortunate for me that I live in one of the more weight-obsessed areas of the country, but if a guy doesn’t…

Why do I hear Carly Simon playing all of a sudden...

This same thing happened to me. Sometimes when people know everything about us they exploit our weakness and take advantage of us. I have FOUGHT to get my life back, one year at a time. I know now that I should have said no. I don’t know what my life would be like if I had not gone back. 

UPDATE: Those of you who think you need or want to lose a few pounds, you look marvelous, too! How I could have messed up my message I don’t know, but I call it COVID-brain and I have it in spades. Love and acceptance is the message!

Buying candy on my way to work!

It’s funny to me that the woman pushing this diet’s last name means Sugar Bread.

I’m sorry you went through that but am also comforted to know this has happened to others! I don’t believe my ex ruined my life, but I spent my last child-bearing years in an off-and-on relationship with someone that was never going to fully commit or be a true partner, who kept reeling me in when he was lonely. I…

People (and mostly talking to you, ladies): you are enough. If you need or want to lose weight, speak to your doctor or other qualified professional to see about eating a little less and moving a little more. The rest of you, you look marvelous. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

He’s really asking how he can forgive himself for the NEXT time he fucks her over.

One of my favorite pastimes is flipping through a fitness magazine like Shape and reading all the fucked up disordered eating advice disguised as “health and wellness.”

Burner to post this for other guys (or gals) out there who may be in my shoes:

It’s that same vibe of the dude who hurts you, and then immediately turns it around about how sorry he is and what an awful person he is, so that you’re supposed to end up comforting him instead.

Okay, when I read this letter, my first reaction was: wow, this person is making several bad (unjustified) inferences. The relationship he describes reminds me of one I was in and, similarly, if you ask my ex his side of the story, he too would be taking lots of credit for why my life is the way it is. In reality, I…

Letter writer cannot forgive themself because they probably desperately need to feel relevant and effective in some ways, even if they’re bad ways. You want to believe you are important and you actions matter. Your actions probably did matter, but it’s not okay to put this all on yourself with no agency on the part of…

this guy’s an asshat feigning penitence to brag about his power over one woman. assholes are a dime a dozen, but it takes an extra special one to write a letter like this.