At this point I’m more calloused about it. Like, “ugh he’s one of THOSE.” But the first time I ever saw an adult man’s penis was when I was a teenager and some guy in his 20s who visited the same forums decided to surprise me with a picture of his. It was pretty shocking at the time. I deleted it and was convinced my…

Actually I posted it here but since I’m’ in the greys you can’t see it.

Awesome.

No problem! I already put it in a comment but since I’m in the greys most people don’t see it.

I don’t think the senders particularly care about age or gender. It’s more about exhibitionism. Though if you don’t do casual online dating your chances of getting a nasty pic are at least 10-fold less.

I understand. You found paradise in America, you had a good trade, you made a good living. The police protected you and there were courts of law. You didn’t need a friend like me. But, now you come to me and you say, “Don Corleone, look at my penis” But you don’t ask with respect. You don’t offer friendship. You don’t…

Ha! I actually saved that gif for the next time a man sends me an unsolicited dick pic. I used to quote the Godfather at them but a picture is so much better.

Well ... you have my blessing.

I wasn’t excusing it. I was saying that I’ve heard this perspective before and that it disgusts me, but does not surprise me.

What kills me about Trump supporters repeating the phrase “basket of deplorables” like some mantra is how thin-skinned and goddamn hypocritical it all is. Like, seriously? I’m “oversensitive” when I say that a Trump presidency threatens my very citizenship as a natural born US citizen of the Muslim faith. (Or that I…

I’ve read this perspective before, on xoJane of all places. People can be total butts sometimes. I am no psychologist, but I think there’s something about the expectation of fright that makes people think other acts of aggression (like fighting or, ugh, pissing in a hallway) are somehow ok.

I don’t consider myself attractive (I have neither the facial symmetry nor the low enough body fat percentage to be “pretty”) but even I have stories like this. Starting from as young as five. (To be fair, though, that incident was by a child my own age and now that I’ve grown up I realized he was probably modeling…

Hopefully most restaurants at least use diluted bleach on their glasses. Diluted bleach on inanimate surfaces kills HSV, but it takes a few minutes to completely kill everything. Also most industrial washers are pretty much like autoclaves. You can always ask if you’re not sure or just use disposable utensils and cups.

Herpes simplex can’t really be transmitted by fomites (ie inanimate objects, food, drink). It’s a skin to skin contact disease. It’s true for 1 and 2. Other forms of herpes can be transmitted by the air e.g. varicella zoster virus.

There have been assholes on the internet posting this rumor since the story about the Paris robbery broke. Plus people who aren’t ashamed to have their real names and photos attached to comments about how Kardashian “deserved it.” No wonder this woman has a full-on security detail.

I know of one “Bobby” who is a faculty member at my university. He is good friends with my adviser and got me an interview for a summer at Oxford which I didn’t get but I did get to go to the UK and have fun.

He went on a bit of a rant about how if anyone else did what Clinton did, their life would be in tatters. If he were president, he said, she would be “in jail.”

Kasich also came in a distant fourth to both these morons, so I hope he’s not feeling too pleased.