BRILLIANT! MAKE IT HAPPEN!

You wear swimsuits that are smaller than that!? Way to go, girlfrand. Wish I had the guts.

Holy crap, have you been reading my diary!? I mean, I know that having a crush on Jon Hamm and Christina Hendricks is hardly shocking... but you also named my "I don't care if he's several inches shorter than I am, I still want him"s.

I really liked it! I love Common and Queen Latifah so it would've had to have been pretty bad for me to be disappointed and I wasn't.

EXACTLY. The fact that all the biggest douchebags I know adore Daniel Tosh is a big enough red flag for me.

Exactly. When men whine about their inability to get laid due to falling in the "nice guy" category all I can ever think is, "What's so nice about a man who believes that he is entitled to sex with everyone woman he is nice to, and who whines about it when it's not immediately available to him?"

That's exactly the point that drives me nuts. It is a documentary, so the foul language that we hear in the film is language produced by teenagers in a more-or-less organic setting. So what the MPAA/"parents" are saying is everyone understands kids are subjected to vulgar language every day as they walk through the…

I go to UCSC and I'm a Psych major. I really feel you on that one, as I have several friends who are the last of the Community Studies department, and are finishing up their degrees this year. I love UCSC though, crazy as it may be.

I know that nobody gets to choose how preggers they look, and that getting huge usually is accompanied by swollen joints, exhaustion, etc. but I just LOVE the look of it. I think it's so gorgeous.

Pretty much exactly this: [www.cracked.com]

You rock. I usually just express my distaste for political candidates by ranting about them to my friends. Your performance art, on the other hand, is varsity level expression of political sentiment.

I think these women look damn good. I'm impressed. This looks better on them than most of those truly-full-coverage suits look on anybody.

That's exactly how my labrador retriever is. He will just plop his big bottom down on any friendly-seeming-person's lap, blocking the view to the tv (or anything else for that matter) and hanging off in every which direction. He is 80 pounds of pure love.

Exactly. I wore my hair down to the small of my back for the past three years, and just a few months ago I decided I was tired of piling all of it on top of my head and dreaming of shaving it off (like every day) so I took my butt down to the salon and had it chopped to chin-length. Best decision ever.

This has been exactly my experience. I'm half-Mexican and appear maybe-ethnic. Generally Black and Latino men come on to me much more often than White men, and they usually do so respectfully. On the occasions when someone has catcalled me in a way that struck me as distressing/frightening/disturbing it has always…

Seconded. I can't stand him.

Thanks, and I appreciate you pointing that out about my timeline. I recognize that using others' shared experience of sexuality as the litmus test of what is normal or "right" can be problematic. I just find it so much easier to tell others "Everything happens to people in their own time!" than to tell it to myself.

Thanks, I appreciate the suggestions.

Thanks, I know it may seem overly dramatic, but that really does make me feel better and give me hope. I guess I'm just particularly distressed about the situation because my finally coming to terms with this lack of desire caused me to feel bad about keeping my boyfriend-of-three-years trapped in a relationship with…

Okay, so this is obviously something I should see a doctor about, but reading what Tim Gunn said just brought it up for me again. I haven't experienced any sexual desire for a handful of years now, but I wish I did. I feel like maybe my loss of desire was correlated with starting on birth control and/or…