but you’ve got to make sure the dick performs like a vibrator and doesn’t do things on its own.

You get a vaginal anesthetic, a vibrator or a dick, and lots of lubricant. Problem solved without pain.

It is all about controlling pain, not about dick versus non-dick. It’s just that your one year of painful sex story was a bit extreme and people just wanted to come up with alternatives. And there are alternatives where you can better control your own pain.

absolutely agree with you.

It is not about morals. It is about experience. Young guys have usually no clue how to do it and may hurt you uselessly, so why not do it yourself?

There is nothing a guy can do that you cannot do before your first time sex. How about a vibrator with lots of lubricant instead of just dry tampons? You insert it at your own pace over a period of time until pain is gone. I don’t know where the confusion is . Of course you can do everything yourself.

I wish someone told me when I was younger that one of those wrap it up boxes were ok to carry with you to bed. Just like you, I thought it would be impolite to tell the guy that I was bored if it lasted more than I cared for (I don’t know exactly how many minutes is that as I never checked the clock although I should…

Speaking to a dude who has been sexually assaulted and uses demeaning language when speaking to women, has the same odds as winning the lottery.

You really don’t need to teach me what sexual assault is. I have been sexually assaulted three times in my life. How many times have you been, dude?

Well as it says in your article there are 70 lawsuits filed by men. That’s a very low number when you consider that one in 5 college women are sexually assaulted (that is hundred of thousands of women). So 70 men thinking they have been wrongly treated by their university sounds negligible, doesn’t it.

Why don’t you take their comments at face value and what do you mean by “progressive gender roles”?

I am too angry about rape and its prevalence to worry about an inaccurate article in the Rolling Stone.

It’s hard for me to realize you are a contributor on Jezebel, when you come across as incoherent.

Maybe you should hate less and think more, asshole.

This story has absolutely nothing to do with dating and how boys and girls ought to be interacting. It’s not about gentlemen or ladies. It has nothing to do with “progressive gender roles” and how this may fuck up men’s brains. It has to do with men hating women and expressing their hatred via degrading sex and…

No, obviously the Ari dude, somehairle and a few others are just trying to explain the rest of us how would they have handled their misogynist online venting without anybody finding out, i.e the smart way. And interestingly enough many people fell for their deception. What they don’t expect is that some people can…

Oh, so your problem with these guys is that they made it public. Smart guys just think about it and vent privately their rapey and misogynistic minds, just to close friends who can keep a secret.

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