hey gunga, are you serious? let me know. i'd like to hear your story. you can submit anonymously if you want on abusiveanarchist.tumblr.com
Amy M
amythetrex
you're kidding, right? did you read this article? Where is money mentioned? No one is SUING hart, you idiot. he has no money and none of us are trying to get any money from him. i make more than he does, he can't hold down a job because he's such a misogynistic asshole. there is only ONE victim who is involving the…
''oh hey narimonk, someone came by while you were out and wanted to talk to you''
they and theirs
this is hilarious, as only one person is actually pressing charges and that is only because hart is petitioning against their restraining order. none of us have any interest in getting him arrested or convicted of anything and we have been explicit about that. i don't want him to be punished, i want him to stop his…
the same pronoun that the article uses to refer to byrd the entire time, which byrd specifically prefers: they/their. ''the burden is on Jasper to prove the truth of their allegations.''
the willamette week article is awful and every one of us survivors (many of whom were interviewed for it) are disgusted by its lies. i recommend reading this so that you can learn all of the things they got wrong: http://abusiveanarchist.tumblr.com/post/110091295…
you are misunderstanding this article and our experiences. in most cases we gave consent to some things and explicitly said no to other things, which Hart then did to us anyway. ie with Byrd having said multiple times ''no anal'' and Hart then shoving his dick in their ass anyway. This is not ''i said we can have sex…
i get your point but as of now we know of at least 20 people by name that he assaulted or abused. he still insists that every single one of us is lying. i don't think it is in any way comparable to your situation.
i don't have time to respond more fully cause i'm on my lunch break, but thank you for posting this. i'm going to message you later this weekend.
Thanks Jonathan, I appreciate that. I do think that I understand your intention and interest in knowing more, which is why I was willing to answer you. I think it can make it easier for other folks to understand when they get the full story and thought process behind the choices that were made. Obviously one article…
for the record, i'm not really that much of a young lady. i'm 30. :)
jesus. thanks for telling me that. it's just so scary to think of how many people he's victimized over the years that we don't know about. so far around 20 of us have found each other and are supporting each other, but there are more coming out of the woodwork all the time. the latest we know about is from around 6…
Jonathan, I am okay with answering your question for myself, but you really do need to know that you are, indeed, victim blaming. We, the victims, are telling you that, and you need to fucking listen. When you say ''why did you go back to that,'' you are placing the blame on the victim. Just, 100%, that is like THE…
seriously, ''But why the fuck would you let yourself get into a situation where that could happen repeatedly?'' is not different at all from asking ''but why the fuck would you wear that dress again when it got you harassed before?'' victim blaming 101.
I realized I meant to send this to you, LexW, and sent it to TheRealBrightEyes instead, but I'm the ''Amy'' that Cecilia interviewed. Hart really adamantly refused to use protection and actually told three of us, whom he was dating at the same time, that he didn't need to use condoms with us individually because he…
aww, thanks for the well wishes. that's sweet of you. we are all moving forward powerfully together and it's felt really freeing to be in communication with twenty people who were all victimized by the same person. all of us finding each other is like hart's worst nightmare and i kind of love it. :)