You’re grieving for your ex and the life you had. One day the grieving will fade and you’ll focus on the future. It’s hard, but if she wanted to leave, the relationship wasn’t right.

Because you are human. And the way humans process trauma is to mentally relive it and have it come out differently. Even if you weren’t consciously trying to imagine it coming out differently, your mind would go there involuntarily eventually. This is a normal, human reaction to grief. It’s been long studied. I also…

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I know you know it but it’s worth repeating: You did the right thing, you’ve done nothing wrong and you don’t deserve this.

My birthday is July 4th. My family had me convinced that everyone was shooting off fireworks to celebrate my birthday. I embarrassed myself in 3rd or 4th grade when I made that claim to my class.

My sister convinced me that bratwurst was made from bratty kids when I was 6. By the way, we were at Disney World when she did this.

I live in Oregon. I am not surprised at all. This place is racist as fuck.