Only from what I've read here and in a couple of other articles I've read on other sites.

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No this is how I feel

You're over simplifying my position

Why bring up the maintaing her current family size?

When did I call her selfish?

Interesting

I have empathy for her children who have no say in the matter

I'm glad it all worked out for you and yes I'm very proud of my life choices.

He wasn't her husband he was a boyfriend who had lived with her and her young children for only 8 months

I feel very strongly that if you have three children your primary concern should be to parent not having a stupid boyfriend and especially having him move in with you. Three children is more than I could ever handle ( I don't even have one) she has a tough journey ahead of her.

No I'm being sincere

You're probably right

I have mixed feelings reading this.

What the hell is wrong with this guy?

I'm one of the lucky ones

I guess we just disagree

Yes I agree with you

It's not just because of his feminine traits

I doubt he'll actually own up to what's really going on with him