I’ve seen a lot of liberal moralizing regarding Megyn Kelly’s move to NBC and her past.

I guess that’s fair. I tell my little brother that I don’t care if his girlfriend says she has the birth control covered, if he doesn’t want a baby he needs to wear a condom. It’s the only thing HE can do to protect himself and he shouldn’t rely on her to do it for him.

I got all up in my head and didn’t think of it…

I’m not surprised that so many people have this backwards. Emphasizing personal responsibility is not a way for gay men to blame victims. It’s a way for us to unify around a set of ground rules that prevent finger-pointing, scapegoating and division—so that we do not have to litigate the contents of private…

As an active gay man, I’m about as low a risk as you’ll find. I’m on PrEP, (currently) in a monogamous relationship, get tested four times a year, use protection always, and communicate this to every new partner I meet.