Tone is an aspect of style; style is a canon of rhetoric. Rhetoric can be critiqued. One’s subject position doesn’t make them immune to rhetorical critique.

If she is “high af,” then her consent is questionable.

Awesome, an incredibly misogynist artist who writes songs about having questionably consensual sex with drugged out women. But he has a nice voice and he’s friends with Drake so I guess that’s cool?