You have been through a lot, and it is ok for feelings to change. I’m sorry you feel down and embarrassed by it; those feelings suck. I hope you find the strength to talk about marriage openly with your partner - you are clearly strong as hell, because fuck cancer.

When my husband was getting ready to file for his green card, I asked him to marry me instead. It just seemed easier and we had talked about getting married one day anyway.

I know people will say it's from hair being detangled or underlying health issues, etc., but WEN actually made my hair fall out and my scalp was awful. Beware if you have any skin sensitivity.

At the risk of being the target of some next-level vitriol, I’m so jaded by the political scene that I don’t even want to vote.

They need to let it die.

9 to 5 is a GREAT movie

This makes me want to throw up.

I grew up in a family of non-huggers who barely said, “I love you,” because it was just understood. I married a hugger (::shudder::) but he has dialed it back significantly since we first got together, and I’ve become a little more open to hugging outside of being in bed and trying to fall asleep.

carolyn bessette flashbacks - gorgeous!

My friend is hilarious.

A good friend put it best when she told me, “Adele could shit in a CD case and I would still buy the digital track on iTunes.”

I actually just guffawed in public. TY.

Big butts for everyone!

Glad you're doing better! Most days are better here. Baby steps are still steps, amirite 🙌

Agree wholeheartedly. My late-teens, early 20s with bipolar disorder were tumultuous to say the least, and I had all the support in the world and a rural upbringing. I wish them both peace and wellness.

Mine too! What kind of god lets that happen?

Same! I have watched it maybe a dozen times. The teaser almost made me pass out when I first saw it.

I didn’t either for about a decade, and shutting down during sex for so long really broke me. At 19, did it just to get it over with. From then to 21, stuck around with a cheater because I felt like it was the best I could do. At 21, with undiagnosed bipolar, self medicated and slept with more people in a summer than…

[Good] Point[s] taken.

Burton, maybe?