I went a step further and imagined them enthusiastically sexing after hatching their plan, consummating their hatred of gays in the glory of the marital bed. It was gross.

Mark of the beast!

I’m fine now, this was almost 5 years ago. I would definitely advise friends to wait to announce.

Oh man, I did that and I deeply regret it. I announced around 6 weeks and miscarried at 8.

“The goddess’ guide to finding your inner menace”

The negotiating thing is so true. I’m learning to allow myself boundaries and I think too often I’ve left a door open to negotiation and explanations by not firmly shutting it down. I wish there was a class on handling that.

I got a nasty sunburn last weekend because I managed to wrangle 12 kids to put sunscreen on them and then forgot to spray myself. Sad face. I went to Walgreens to pick up some of that sweet medicated aloe vera and the boomer-aged lady behind me in line TAPS MY SUNBURN and with so much distain in her voice says:…

I love cheeseburgers and have great respect and admiration for vaginas. I do not understand what this means. At all.

I hear prosciutto rains from the sky on Ham Planet.

I thought spite buying is when the MAC employees are mean to you so you go over to Benefit so they can see you drop a shit ton of money and know that could have been their commission? No?

My reaction would be the same, and my suggestion would be counseling for both of them- learning to communicate better, learning what behaviors led to poor intimacy, and then determining if the relationship can be mended.

Good luck. We’ve been using the power of two marriage online because it’s cheaper and more flexible for our marriage counseling. It’s really helpful!

OR it’s not that Figjam assumes any action his ex-wife did was his fault- it’s that he’s a mature person who is willing to concede that possibly this particular action was due to a need not being met in a marriage, and being able to understand that in a relationship between two people, especially regarding intimacy,…

She’s also apparently mentally ill and receiving no care.

Fuck, this story is a Republican wet dream.

But...

Doesn’t the daughter live far away? And she came to visit her mom to help her through labor and delivery? She might have been told all these things but lived far enough away that she wouldn’t have been there to see it.

I will! I fly down to see her in two days! We will snuggle and eat cookies and watch bad TV. I can’t wait :)

I wanted my daughter’s name and birthdate on the back of my neck and the first artist I went to wouldn’t do it because he thought dates were bad luck. I told him I’m not the slightest bit superstitious, but he would not do it because “If I do her birthdate, next I’ll be doing her death date”. Um, okay.

Well I’m just a sea of questions now. I’m glad she’s alive and well.