No you are not a shitty person. If you didn’t understand sexual assault was wrong until you had a daughter...then you’d be a very very shitty person.

I think the call to action* is “Empathy is a thing that you feel outside of yourself; having a personal connection to women’s (minorities’/poverty/etc.) issues makes this more about you than about supporting a movement on its own merit. And trumpeting your newfound ‘wokedness’ makes it even more about you, because…

He wrote, idiotically, in the comment section of a soccer-specific blog.