“Makes me think you are not a safe person.” An argument directed at the person, rather then the position they are holding. Yes it was.

I do understand that, but I am just being honest. If you assess every potential partner from the perspective of “THEY ARE RAPIST UNTIL PROVEN OTHERWISE” you probably are just not ready to date. The difference between “telling your roommate where you are going” and “getting up, giving your drink to the bartender, and…

One, thank you for the Ad Hominem Attack. Two, let me ask you this. If If you were on a date, and the gentleman, lady (I do not know your sexual preference, nor is the gender actually relevant) was driving you somewhere, and had to stop off at work to get something, and then demanded that you come in with them, or get…

Not going to lie, if you feel so worried about a guy that you are terrified he might rape you, don’t go out with him. If a woman did this while I was on a date and gave that as the reason? Date is over. Unless you feel you can trust the other person with at least that bare modicum of decency, don’t bother dating.