my god. if you want me to watch videos or read articles on your website, you need to do something about the ads that suddenly eat up half of the screen without warning. i watched 60 seconds of the first video before coming to make this damn comment because i had it pop up THREE TIMES! In 60 seconds! While trying to…

I’m convinced the writers here have given up.

so i guess we’re not doing sns anymore?

And that’s worked so well in the past.

I used to be a ghostwriter for dating site profiles (yes, that is an actual thing). I’m not going to say that every man over 45 was looking for a woman under 28... but it sure seemed like it.

It sounds utterly exhausting to view every interaction with other humans as combat or competition. I’m glad this article hammered home the points about vulnerability and community.

Ask Lizzie Bennett. That’s why I hate that fucking book.

And you just know that typically don’t really want kids. And when they do, the younger woman will be parenting alone.

Oh god! The Level Up movement is a shitshow. Lots of “snag a wealthy man” by dressing “classy” (boobs hanging out of a polyester tweed jacket/tiny shorts from SheIn instead of boobs hanging out of a bodycon dress from Fashion Nova), femininity talk that is anti-black, hostility towards overweight women, suggestions to…

tl;dr version: Everyone is horny and no one is happy. 

The fact that Jeffrey Epstein was super into evolutionary psychology should tell you everything you need to know. 

I hate growing up in the age of the internet more every day. Between this and Fakebook outrage, people just can’t handle it and are the worst. Let’s just all fuck each other over and manipulate perpetually. Let's see how that goes!

And then what? What happens after you “win” this stupid game? A relationship built on deception, wherein the guy that you’re dating doesn’t really know the real you... and is attracted to this inauthentic version of you? How long do you keep that up? What are you really “winning” at here?

I have always contended that evo psych was invented by middle-aged college professors to justify being predatory towards barely legal coeds.

I already feel like I’m playing Candyland while everyone else is playing 4th-dimensional chess. This doesn’t help. 

Thank God I’m already married. This sounds exhausting.

If you are treating dating like a Bloodsport marital arts competition, maybe you’d be better off single. 

This kind of reminds me of the Level Up movement that I’ve seen gowning since the start of the pandemic. Level Up seems to be a mostly Black woman thing, with idea of marrying a man that can financially provide, looking your best, getting better jobs, travel and luxury. Most of the stuff they are spouting at old sex…

This honestly sounds like the fever dream of the MRA world, and I’d be curious to know what percentage of the activity actually IS those guys LARP-ing as the kind of evil shrew bitch they imagine they’re “up against”.

“When a man has found his dream girl, he will ditch his old ways and become the man that she expects to have,” says one post.