I think you’ve described the difference perfectly; People who DRIVE cars vs people who USE cars. 

“Trumping”

For this reason, I have been through ANY carwash, maybe 4-6 times. In life. Regardless of car. Hand wash, almost weekly, year round.

Been there, done (Or,got done) that. A GF dumped me ‘cause I spent more time & money on the car, than her. Interestingly, the car was how I met her!