afriendlypedant
afriendlypedant
afriendlypedant

This is incorrect. The subject of “deru” in the case of ejaculation is the ejaculate. Japanese is highly contextual, so it’s not said, but the subject in this sense would never be the person who is orgasming. In the case of the other most common way to signal an orgasm - “iku” - the subject is the person. /Japanese