Maybe she has to play both sides to get along. Maybe she has to at least see to be playing the white supremacy side in order to keep her job.

If this doesn’t show that in fact, large doses of easily accessed pornography is having an impact (a negative impact) on children I don’t know what does. This makes me so, so sad. And I realized, had I constantly seen these images or had my male peers had this much access to these images I would have been one of those…

fine, you may be right about all of that (excpet that i am a child. you are the only one getting personal here, so the way i see it, you are the child). but what is the problem? how am i supposed to do my part to prevent this from happening again?

Dude just stop. Only a whiny little boy can’t face the cold hard truth of our gender- we have a large, long, and statistically verified history of violence against women we’re attracted to. Women don’t. It’s us. Our problem. Sitting here thinking the stupid things you do is cowardly. A grown adult acknowledges the…

I shoot concert photography, and I completely agree. I don’t think it would be right for me to take photos that I shoot, either on behalf of the artist or a publication, for personal profit or for sale without their permission, or use outside of the reason I’m there to shoot. That said, I also don’t think it is right…

I adore my Spanx, I find them comfortable for up to 10 hours, and I’m not ashamed of being fat. I like to look smooth, keep my dresses from clinging, and protect my privacy. That’s all. When did Spanx become anti-feminist? I LOVE mine and I don't think my feminist membership card is in jeopardy because if it.

I’m getting so frustrated with people’s perspectives on this because it really lacks an understanding of dementia and what it would mean to be in mental decline and not be allowed physical intimacy. Someone with alcohol can be prevented from having sex because we know they’ll be sober tomorrow. However, it’s a lot…

For our honeymoon, my husband and I booked what was advertised as an "oceanfront beach house." The photos featured a lovely little house with a large deck and it's own private beach. We lived several hours away so we couldn't check it out in person in advance, but based on the photos, we thought it seemed like exactly…

On the flight to our destination, I learned that my new husband had chosen the honeymoon location and all of our activities because he had had such an amazing time there with his ex-girlfriend, a few years prior. It went on like that for two more years before we split. (And he couldn't understand why I left him…

we weren't running late. we came from a hotel across the street from the airport. but we had to wait in line just to check our bags. and some prick was asking everyone in my family the same questions to see if our stories matched. WE WENT TO DEVON. do terrorists go to weddings in Devon? and it's not hard to trip my…

Thank you. Unfortunately, that kind of nuance is pointless with this crowd. Why discuss when you can just get your daily dose of Faux Outrage porn?

It was seen as derivative to the people he was inspired by, yes, but that is not my point. Fashion has always traded on the influence of so-called "street-style" and "low" culture. And the conversation often goes back and forth, with street culture influencing high, and then vice versa, and on and on (with the dawn…

I'm all for calling out when fashion houses generate actual offenses along the lines of cultural or religious sacrilege (the trivialization of sacred regalia/ symbols, Racist charicatures, etc)... but let's just be real: there is no seething racism here. The look is pretty far removed from the source.

When I was suddenly given a cancer diagnosis, we were stunned. But, I later found out from my mother that he called and told her that she didn't need to worry. He was not ever leaving me and that he would take care of her only child no matter what.

Arquette's speech has had such a divisive effect that I wouldn't be surprised to learn it was actually written by Karl Rove or Koch Brothers, Inc. To wit: "white feminists," P/WOCs, LGBTQ*s, and probably some MMR trolls in disguise all tearing each other apart about what? An Academy Award acceptance speech.…

I'm sorry but I got what she meant and agree with it.

So you understand my point. The problem with most leftist ideologies and how they struggle so hard compared to right wing conservative tactics is that we spend so much time fighting with each other and using our brains that we become easy targets to get steamrolled by the unthinking wheat thresher of right wing…

That, kids, is called a strawman argument.

This stuff just blows my mind.

As I've said: So what if someone means well but doesn't quite articulate her idea as well as she might when the entire world is watching? Gotta find outrage somewhere.