I thought I was done crying for the moment until I read your comment. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I go back and forth with my husband all the time about kids. He loves kids and is so great with them. I really like some kids, but other kids I would literally rather cut off an appendage than have to answer their stupid fucking questions. I really want to be pregnant and give birth, and if my kids are a certain way I…

Scotties! I'm from the class of 2012 (Blue Water Dragons!), and I currently work there, so I can give my two cents. One of my closest friends at ASC enrolled as a ciswoman lesbian, and in his junior year began to tell his friends that he was questioning his gender. By his senior year all his ASC paperwork listed him…

Whew. I wrote a rather violent FemShep/Jack fight sex fic that is decently popular on FFN, so I was worried I had offended your genitals with my own work.

...Was the pairing Jack/FemShep?

I hope you named them after the Tam children.

Oh my God, I do your job now at my school. and Soledad O'Brien did our commencement speech last year. We're basically the same person.

My husband and I have pretty amazing sex. Lot's of fucked-up roleplay. We are both the kinds of people who were like "I will never be able to tell my future spouse about the fucked up things I jerk off to" before meeting one another. I swear, every time we sheepishly admit something to one another, the other partner…

I laugh at number one, because my husband and I are both clinically depressed, but we communicate well, argue effectively, and have a lot of good quality sex. So, huzzah?

Yeah, Audre Lorde has a pretty vivid description of her illegal abortion in her book Zami, and I was nauseated and so angry. Angry that anyone could think that forcing people to go back to that would somehow be better for babies. If people with uteri would go through that to not be pregnant, how in the world can…

My cat, Swain, has a not-real name. But I don't like Fluffy and Snowball and shit. She's named after a video game character because she is black and has a limp, and the character has black hair and walks with a cane and a limp. Here she is in the cat tree built by her grandfather.

Thank you for making me cry when I haven't even been at work for an hour.

Joke's on you, PETA. If I was eighteen percent thinner, I'd still be too fat for Plan B.

I know this makes me a whiny fat girl, but I am a little upset that the woman playing Ursula appears to be conventionally attractive. Ursula is my evil fat girl inspiration.

My cat is the first indoor cat I've ever had (also first cat that I have had at my own place of residence). She hates outside. She loves watching it from the window, but she is a runt and outside is big and scary. Our roommate's cat will try to make a break for it sometimes, but only the roommate isn't home. I think…