I had some Jimmy Choo boots like that. I wore them once, and it was mostly pure hell after the first 30 minutes. I spent the last two hours of the night barefoot, because I just couldn’t take the pain anymore.

That’s nice that he does that. Men who understand the dangers and care about women don’t mind doing things like that, in my experience. They would want other men to be that considerate of the women in their own lives, too. It’s just not that hard to do for anyone who cares.

You made an impressive effort with him, but he obviously just wanted sympathy. The very fact that he thinks that a woman simply acting nervous around him when she thinks he might be following her with bad intent is the same as her treating him like a rapist is pretty telling.

It’s pretty clear. If she thinks he’s a nice guy, but he’s not, she risks being stalked, raped or killed. If she thinks he’s dangerous, but he’s really not, the worst thing that has happened is...nothing, really. He keeps saying he was treated like he’s a rapist, but what did she really do? She gave him some side-eye…