This is the truest truth. I actually come easier and much harder from vaginal intercourse. But if a guy doesn’t attempt, without prompting, to mouth schuck my giggle oyster I'm pretty much done.

I have a hard time getting off from it too. It’s amazing as a warmup, but I generally don’t come from it.

Oral sex is pretty much the only way I don’t orgasm. Maybe I’ve only had dudes go down on me who are bad at it, but it’s always long and tedious for me. I’m OK with never receiving oral sex again.

Dudes, first time I tried a blowjob I messed up and got a wad right in my eye. It was bright red for two days. Guess what I did not give up on.

How are they even getting away with that? UGH ITS TOO EARLY FOR THIS SHIT

Let’s keep perspective here. This is the same state that is closing 31 DMV locations, citing funding. This disproportionately affects people of color, as the DMVs are in predominantly African-American counties.

This “machine” thing sounds so Skull and Bones. I’m off to read more about this and maybe even the Illuminati now. Like, is this real life?

What the fuck is wrong with white people and status issues? They straight up don’t care if people think they’re racist because they care more about appearing “proper” to the people with “status.” It’s so repulsively class-based and so... 1950s. How the fuck is it 2015 and we’re still having COLLEGE STUDENTS so wrapped…

I’ve been eventually dumped or rejected or made to feel like shit in some capacity by almost every dude I’ve ever fucked or wanted to fuck and yet somehow I’ve managed to never mass murder

Not really. They should have some sort of contact verification set up, though, so they can can provide identities and locations for law enforcement in such cases. Would help deter this sort of thing from happening and improve their reputation.

It’s unbelievable that Kickstarter has no liability in any of these cases.

This is... amazing.

It’s a slow decline. Probably about 7 years? Since we had kids. Not that kids destroyed the marriage - I would never say that - but children are extremely stressful and now I can see that there were small fractures and cracks that were there before and the stress weight of the kids has made the small cracks into…

I’m married, and I don’t get this either. My relationship is no different than it was before we got married. It’s nice to be considered each other’s family now, but when we’re at home, hanging out together, it doesn’t feel different to be doing it as husband and wife v. boyfriend and girlfriend. I think that people…

Thanks. Counseling is our next step. We have some serious issues communicating and at this point we’re more like roommates. But sadly not even good roommates. Like the roommates that get paired up through a computer program for their first year of college and grow to resent each other even though it should have worked…

I like the “more good than bad” rule, personally. If there’s more good than bad, it’s probably worth staying. If there’s more bad than good, it’s probably not. A bad day, week, month, or even year or two is one thing (depending on the circumstances), but after a lot of bad years, you can’t keep holding onto the good…

Honestly? I don’t think marriage needs to be that much work, all of the time. I’d compare it to my relationship with my sisters or my parents (hear me out) in that I get pissed at them (REALLY pissed at them sometimes), but they’re part of me, and I just absolutely always want that to be true.

I think that’s the entire point. My husband and I have been married for eight years and we have been through so much together that would probably have split up and has split up other couples we know. But there is no one else in the world I want to go through those things with because I love him and our children more…

But if you’re not married, you might wonder why everyone treats marriage like some horrible secret they have to tell everybody.

As someone in a really “not great” period of marriage right now, I have to confess I hate hearing “Marriage is hard!” or “Marriage is work!” - how hard is it really supposed to be? How much work is too much work? I know all relationships are hard work - but at what point can you look at something and say “This is more…