Thank you for sharing so much in this thread. I have been happily married for over three years, and have always lived my life with a low sex drive. However, it doesn't mean that I don't have great times with my husband, but on average, it has always been 3 times a month, with some higher months, but not lower yet. I…

... and this is why husbands cheat.

I hate to sound like an asshole, but I could never remain in a relationship which only had sex once or twice a month. furthermore, I'd be so pissed and resentful all the time, that my wife or girlfriend would probably leave me first.