So, if you know that, and they know that, why don’t you and they try harder? And create happiness around you instead of burdening the wife and encouraging resentment, etc.?

In my observation, men who get remarried right away find women kind of interchangeable. They want someone there for sex and housework, and she should be as attractive as they can manage, but that’s it. Women are a lot more picky, and the older we get — I speak for myself here — the easier it is to see a man’s issues…

I think a lot of it has to do with local culture. At least, it did when I was growing up in a conservative working class area with the typical backward views, that boys were expected to be predatory but girls were sluts if they so much as blinked an eye at the boys. Friends in more middle class environments had…

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Or, you know, instead of yelling their angry shit onstage, they could become activists and actually do something for someone else for a change. Bono seems to try, but he has his head up his ass about where his money actually goes.

My guess is because she was young and felt ok. Heart disease can strike any age, but we’re inclined to think you have to be over 35. It’s more overlooked in women, and black women especially.

Violet liqueur, gin and *wine*? I’d say seltzer with maybe a mint garnish, although I like lemon as a garnish, too.

I don’t mind detailed questions. I’ll help people if I can, as long as they aren’t assholes about it, but I hate when asking for advice is a pretense and what they really are after is getting me to do it for them for free or while we “hang out.” No, not happening. I don’t work in my free time and my work time isn’t…

This. Unless it really features a seasonal ingredient, I stay away from specials.

I think you put the frozen-booze-bottle-cube in your drink in a BIG glass. Swirl it around every time you take a drink. By the time your drink is finished, the ice should hopefully be melted off the little bottle and you can drink it as a chaser.

Made me wonder if there is such a thing as a frozen yogurt wine drink.

This applies to so many things in life.

A good movie, 2 1/2 hrs or shorter, and cheaper ticket prices, yep. And if they had kid-free shows, that would be a bonus, although it’s not always kids talking.

Some people aren’t safe anywhere.

Secret Santa should buy her a fat dildo.

Talk about that bloated feeling.

Florida, Arizona. Florida, Arizona. So hard to decide.

Star it now. It has 635. Maybe it’ll get 666.

I had a really good apple tart on Air France. I don’t even want to admit how many years ago that was.

The tarp will cost extra.