Yeah I was like "Billy Joel ... died at 79? No way that guy was 79. If he was 79, I'm ancient! Wait ... rereading."

Actually douchebag is a great insult because douching is a bullshit beauty practice made up to sell shit and make women feel bad for their bodies, and it's actually bad for vaginas.

Option a) Stop giving a shit if you look like a crazy asshole, just call them on their shit. The worst thing that happens to you if you call them on it is that you look like a crazy asshole. The worst thing that happens to us if you don't is they keep persecuting us. (That will probably still happen regardless of…

Nope, right there with you. My reactions went from "hell yeah this is awesome" at the beginning, to "oh, ok, I do like post-apocalyptic stuff, so I'll just put up with the boring and unoriginal parts," to "good lord is every character in this book going to devolve into a trope parody" to "meh, not interested in…

Jezebel, please correct your factual error. Fox's daughter is 16. This makes a big, big difference in how people will perceive her and the history of her transition, and, even though it's really not something people should be judging her about one way or another, she has to make her case to the public right now, so…

Since it's a lesbian app, what are the chances that it asks you to check a box for male or female?

Well, LunaticMoth didn't say they were all transwomen, just that it's possible some of them are. Trans identities don't usually just spring fully formed in an instant. I don't think it's outside the realm of plausibility that there are a few transwomen who have not yet changed their names, or who may even be in more…

My experience is as a lesbian-leaning bi woman who has (very happily) dated several transwomen who I met on regular old internet dating sites. So I would say, go wherever women seeking women go. And I really hope any lesbian dating ap allows transwomen to participate, because otherwise I would boycott them.