Or asking about previous relationships. "I haven't had good luck with women" is usually a red flag.

One kid ain't nothin'. You can have the one, get an ErgoBaby and strap it to you and go about your business. You're young, and you'll get your body back. Daycare will suck for a few years, but you'll only be 33 when baby graduates to kindergarten and cheaper/no daycare. Also, family is usually willing to help out…

How is it possible that TWO of these are in Texas? I live in Austin, am a woman, and do just fine, but I'm still shocked...

I wish I had known before I got pregnant (I'm 12 weeks along) how physically uncomfortable pregnancy is. I knew about morning sickness and fatigue, but it's unrelenting... and when you do feel slightly better, you get anxious that it's because you had a miscarriage.