I sadly encountered far too many asshole douchebags in my 20's (I had horrible taste in men) and disagree, slightly. Depends on the douchebag.

I really don't see the problem with writing songs about things that happen to you. I think people are butthurt that it works so well for her. The rest of us have to stick to talking shit for free.

Like any industry there are definitely politics involved... I know somebody who does tech stuff for various musicians on their tours and dancers are free to take on different contracts when their old ones are up, but if you leave in the middle of the tour you're probably going to be messing something up. And if you're…

His character in Girls is so repulsive I had to stop watching the show. No matter how funny it is, it can't trump the grossness of him as a character or, even worse, their execrable relationship.

900% certain that he's actually grabbing his before never spoken about peg leg.

John Mayer Must Die should be the name of their duet concert special they do together to make amends.

Fuck. John Mayer. You played with a child and got burnt playing a child's game. Shut the fuck up and move on. Also, remember the campsite rules, you gross fuck.

Other things that started with/by John Mayer:

THANK YOU. I think it's the scene in Girls where he's rubbing his semi-hard junk in stained briefs at a frumpy-looking Lena Dunham that turned me off. I think; there are so many things that could be responsible for my distaste.

But now that he's an ex for both of them, shouldn't they bond over their mutual hatred of him? Fighting over him now is an odd move. This is not how Lifetime Movies prepared me for life.

He is the actor version of John Mayer.

Alternate theory: Taylor Swift is gay and didn't like the way Katy Perry trivialized her sexual preference.

Adam Driver is really gross.

Because of fucking course it started with John Mayer.

that's really great! i wish there had been talk of this when i was younger. the status quo of women who are supposed to be reluctant/passive/ashamed can lead a lot of people to do things that may not be criminal, but may also not be the best choice for them. the better you know yourself, the better the sex will be.

I Googled "Rocket Surgery," and thanks to you this image is now on its way to my house, adorning a T-shirt. I hope you're happy.

hmmm... no. if a person is too shy to say "yes" unprompted, or in response to a specific prompt, they aren't mature enough to be having sex. they can go to therapy until they're ready to own what they want, and communicate it effectively.

Yeah, it's weird how often I am saying "Yes! Yes!" during sex without even being ASKED! It's not actually that hard and it's definitely not messing up the flow of sex or anything.

To the people who object to this: Do you want to take the chance that you are going to have sex with someone who is not 100% consenting? If the answer is in any way "Yes", you need to take a good, long look at yourself.

if you're not getting enthusiastic consent, you aren't doing it right.