Nope, but good luck from this 26 year old virgin.

This reminds me of a couple of things.

Actually it's been found that the obese and smokers actually cost the state less than they otherwise would, because they die off early, and also pay taxes without claiming pensions and the like. Like others have said, being old is far more expensive, and smokers and the obese are less likely to become old.

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Thanks for the explanation, that makes a lot more sense.

The magic of Gawker's commenting system is that you can click on his user name and find out! And yes, this was his third comment, the second shaming Rihanna and women in general and the first stating that homophobia is inevitable. And he also suspects women of dating him for free stuff. What a catch!

A "Real Blow Job"? As opposed to what? A fake one? An unreal one?

Hey, I need some justification for eating something that adorable. Pretending that I'm actually in a duel to the death with that piggy makes it a lot easier.

But what's the difference between saying something to a friend in private or saying it to them in a text/email? And what difference does it make whether they delete it or not? That feels like a false distinction to me. You're position seems a lot less harsh than I originally thought, but now it feels like you're…

Well she didn't say whether the profile listed casual sex as what she's looking for, or what the guys messaging her were after, but I guess we can assume for most of them.

"I have to stop being his caretaker."

Well someone getting violently angry is never an acceptable response, so I can understand you feeling wary going into future situations.

Yeah, when does "we shouldn't have secrets" become "I don't trust you"?

Fair enough, I guess I can see how that would be a lot more tempting than something premeditated. So I guess the question is, if him doing this behind your back wasn't a dealbreaker, is him continuing to do it openly going to be? Because I don't see it going any other way.

No experience or assurance from me, but it's kinda disconcerting to read about some asshole making someone else unhappy and realise "this guy sounds like me". Kinda makes me wonder whether I should be trying to date at all when I really need to majorly sort out my own life before dragging someone else into this mess.

"if you can't accept a certain level of infrequent and inconspicuous snooping then you don't need to be in a relationship"

What were you actually planning to do when checking his email? I mean short of an affair I doubt you could have found anything much more damning. He was obviously so far over the line he might as well have been cheating on you IMO. If this isn't a deal breaker for you then why violate his privacy in the first place?…

A lot of them do seem like that, but then are also a few who seem genuine, or are just confused, or not very smart. There's one on the first page who seems genuine and then annoyed by her responses.

Well, I guess if the only people who are genuinely messaging you also work it out and aren't upset by it then no harm done. I personally wouldn't take that chance though.

I guess I don't see anything wrong with being dim, or horny. So they're desperate, is that a reason to string them along?