That definition of pan always bothers me a little since it isn't like bisexual people aren't attracted to trans individuals. I tend to think of it as a case of which label a person wants to choose for themselves. I guess you could be saying you are specifically attracted to non-binary people as much as either gender,…

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I've long identified as bi not in terms of attraction to two binary genders, but instead attraction to those that are like my gender and also all of those that are not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. I acknowledge that stands in contrast to the distinction you, and many others prefer to make between bi and pan, but I like using the labels…

I personally lump all people into two categories - Will-have-sex-with-me-sexuals and won't-have-sex-with-me-sexuals. Any other labels are just semantic.

Pansexuality is confused with but often differs significantly from bisexuality. Pansexual folks make explicit their attraction to people who do not fit into that gender or sexual binary. Intersex, trans* and gender non-conforming folks, who are excluded from that binary in many cases, are included under the pan…

So, "I'm bi except the term 'bisexual' isn't inclusive enough"? Doesn't that imply that transsexual people are something other than the male or female they identify as? I think using the term "pansexual" is offensive and exclusive toward trans people.

You're quite sure that not one "oh" was an "I acknowledge that nothing I do or say will prevent this person from describing their idiosyncratic self-concept to me in exhaustive detail" kind of "oh"?

Just because something is the truth does not mean it isn't flawed. It's problematic that Eurocentric beauty standards are so pervasive, but that's neither the fault of the author nor of the grandmother nor of the people who found her to be beautiful, so it's included because it is a truth. This isn't a critical think…

No, I get it, I don't love it either. I don't have those features at all and I have a little cousin who is obsessed with Cinderella and just can't wait to dye her hair blonde. It hurts, it sucks, I know. Sorry if I appear to misunderstand your point but I don't think the sentence you highlighted promotes or…

Just because you hate it, doesn't make it not a reality. It is pretty clear in the piece that she was considered the most beautiful girl because it was different in this particular culture. So yes, you're right, most people do not have these features and its pretty common to admire what you don't have.

Who even wants to have sex with someone who's unconscious? I can't even get off without my partner loudly pretending to be amazed at the size of my penis.

Sometimes it helps to look at the same type of scenario with a non-sexual action:

I don't mean to brag, but I don't have to have sex with unconscious people to have sex.

"Hey Bras, guess who's paying child support in 9 months and spreads STDs!? Yup! It's this Bra!"

Originally from Michigan, he strove for an anti-capitalist lifestyle, the pinnacles of which were his militant veganism and leadership in the biking community.

You know, as a male feminist, I was interested by this:

I have never experienced assault at the hands of a male feminist, but I have experienced Macktivism for sure. I only trust men who listen more than they talk about feminism (in a conversation with women), who are feminist in actions but not necessarily name. I look for nuances in conversation, reactions to real world…

I thought I was the only one. I was so ashamed. Thank god I'm not alone.

Yeah, but he looks strangely hot in this picture. Like, hate-fuck worthy. Why?! What's wrong with me?! Or is it just that vaccination is attractive?