Men on the internet constantly derail whole conversations to talk about how men aren’t getting the attention and specific care they need.

Having never had the kind of power straight white men have, I can only imagine it must be like being addicted to the worst drug in the world. It ruins your health, tortures you mentally, causes you to spread terrible ideas to your kids, denies you multiple sources of joy or comfort, demands you treat all sexual desire…

“Well, REAL men aren’t healthy OR happy!”

Biologically, men are aggressive, dominate, risk-taking and competitive. It is something that cannot be completely controlled without a lot of chemical help.

“Real men go through life suffering from problems that would be eased or avoided entirely if they simply sought out treatment!!! Only liberal snowflakes try to improve their quality of life!!” -these assholes

The good news is they can immediately release a secondary report, the full text of which will be: “See?”

This whole report is literally aimed at helping men (and boys) be happy and healthy. And because they are so fucking insecure, these idiots have decided it’s a war on men! Christ. 

Masculinity doesn’t have to be toxic. You can be a good man and be strong, intelligent, compassionate, confident, timid, unsure, head-strong, etc. And still be a solid, man-of-your-word ‘stand-up man’. The problem is men that are NOT gentleman aren’t teaching young how to be all of those things combined. 

If you read something as anodyne as “men should be able to express their feelings” as a personal attack, then you’re part of the problem. 

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She voted to fund DHS as a whole until February, not ICE in particular. There are thousands of DHS employees who are working without pay. I don’t think agreeing to short-term funding for an entire department is a show that she’s dropping a campaign promise. It just means she’s not willing to stick it to ICE at the…

Nearing 50 and I wouldn’t be interested him anyway. In fact, after 18 years of marriage, if I were to divorce and be single again I wouldn’t be interested in ANY man. I would be far more interested in doing whatever the hell I wanted to do, answering to no one, and most importantly, only taking care of myself. If I…

Yeah - your daughter and I have that in common. And I have been raged at by both men and women for thinking men over 30 are “creepy” for hitting on me. I’m not necessarily calling them “old” either. They just always act so fucking condescending. And while they’re hitting on me! Like it’s very clear they want someone…

I have a 25 year old daughter and she thinks guys over 30 are creepy. She can’t be alone in this. I am of an age where I am invisible to all men except the husband. Although there is some beauty in this, I could do without the dudes who don’t seem to see me sharing the sidewalk with them, exiting the train, waiting on…

I talk to my male from ends about this. They all deny watching porn where the woman seems uncomfortable and I deeply believe they are lying. 

Do we ever speak of the consumer end of this? The audience for humiliation, violation and abuse? What does this say about us as a whole? How do we change? Where is our responsibility?

You know, that’s a fantastic question. Why the hell didn’t they do that?? That would have been great. Goddammit. I swear, if doctors don’t think of something, then they just act like it doesn’t exist (ie, leaving me rotting in a hospital bed for a year, seemingly in the hope that my body would just fix itself, before…

Honestly I bet the #1 result of these lists being made public is people seeking less care, or seeking emergency care later. Without knowing insurer’s bargained rates and payments or ultimate patient responsibility on these numbers, these numbers are essentially meaningless.

So on his own he was fine with Kelly, but thanks to his THREE daughters...  Why is it some people can’t see crimes against women as crimes against people unless they’ve sired daughters?  I know this is a recurring thing and it never fails to floor me that these guys are totally okay with men assaulting their mothers,…