Yeah, early on in the season, I really thought it would be Pearl, Katya, and Trixie in the top three. I wish one of them would have won. Of the top three we got, though, I really think it should have been Pearl. Violet’s beautiful and talented in many areas, but she can’t act at all. Ginger is, as you pointed out,…

The thing with Violet was that she couldn’t act to save her life. Honestly, of the top three (which is not to say that they were my top three of the season) I think Pearl was probably the most intriguing. Her personality really developed and I think she grew up a lot. Whereas Ginger was the leader of the Bitter Old…

I got it, you guys. It’s beyond fantastic.

Yeah, I heard she gets super bad stage fright still, after all these years. Maybe that could be it? At least we know she’s not lip syncing.

They don’t even stock my size. I have to search all over the internet for an affordable 34 J

It’s asexual. Straight people thought it was “ally” for a while, but that has never been the case. While allies are awesome and necessary, many within the LGBTQ community thought it functioned as a sort of “cookie” that straight people could get for supporting LGBTQ rights. No one should get a cookie for being a…

This isn’t a “general rule” kind of thing. It’s a BDSM thing. BDSM has to be founded on the consent of all involved because the things kinky people do can very easily stray into neglect, exploitation, and abuse if consent is even a little murky. That’s why this is different than, say, a gay couple holding hands in…

It’s no problem. I understand the perspective of people saying that it’s harmless fun (because that is what it looks like to me, too) but without stringent rules about consent, the things us kinky people do can very easily stray into neglect, exploitation, and abuse.

Look. Kink is fun. I do it all the time. In fact, the guy I’m seeing right now likes to wear a collar with a little bell on it and it’s cute af. But in BDSM, everything you do must be based on consent of all involved. It doesn’t matter if it’s non-sexual, it has to be consensual. People in public spaces haven’t…

First, I kind of wanted to address the idea that it might not be sexual. I’m a kinkster, and I can only speak to my own experience. But the whole idea of a “fetish” is that it’s a pretty non-sexual thing that, for whatever reason, becomes sexual for those involved in it. Even if it isn’t explicit, it’s still sexual to…

Wait, wait, wait. You’re comparing this guy, when he was a kid (even if he admitted that he knew it was wrong when he did it), molesting his sisters to some imaginary event you think Gawker covered? That’s a real sound debate you have there, buddy. But let’s just say it was true. If we take your obvious hyperbole as…

Some people like to do what’s called “pet play” in BDSM. Usually it’s different than bestiality or furries - bestiality is real animals (so not cool) and furries generally wear full-body suits (it’s another kink and is, in general, harmless) Pet play can involve wearing things like collars, tail butt-plugs, and even…

Sorry about that

That’s exactly what my worry was. No, it’s not going to hurt anyone, but the whole basis of kink is that everyone involved is consenting. Involving strangers without consent is definitely iffy to me.

Yeah, in my experience, women who enjoy pet play tend to play as “kittens” but puppy girls aren’t unheard of. Same goes for kitty boys. It all looks like harmless fun to me, although I do worry sometimes that kinksters are trying to involve non-consenting people into their play. The whole basis of kink is that…

I get what you’re driving at, but I think you’re missing some of the nuances here. When I’m arguing the “men controlling women” point, I mean that there is a system currently in place that values men more highly than it does women. Women can be agents of this system (through internalized misogyny) even if they are…

She’s also been really open about her process on this album. Basically the whole thing is about one of those shitty guys you get hung up on for an embarrassing amount of time - and finally getting rid of him.

First of all, plenty of people are talking about the other characters in the movie.

Yeah, like that but...you know, safe (no chains to suspend someone from the ceiling, for example). You could have different rooms too, with different themes. A club I used to go to had themed rooms. One was like a horse stable, one was like a doctor’s office...I mean, if you’re into the roleplay stuff.

Yes. And some special archives for some really old first editions that, of course, I’d be able to afford.