I questioned the Greek thing too. That is a culture. So, why is that okay?

A showgirl headdress is okay though, right?

Yeah, you definitely are that kind of person if you are asked if you have used the N-word and you respond by saying "yes, of course!".

My grandpa died 2 years ago at 93. He was a complete horrible fucking racist. But he was also suffering from dementia so bad that he didn't know who anyone was or where he was most of the time. Funny that he could remember racial slurs but not his own name. It was one of those things that we just kinda had to deal…

Huh?? How does that apply at all here? The N-word is not something that is ingrained in your vocabulary unless you are a freaking racist.

thank you so much for your response. I myself have been through a physically abusive relationship, and have dealt with people who doubted me because they didn't see it. I know how harmful that can be for a victim and how serious those allegations are, and I can't imagine why anyone would want to fake their way into…

I left my abusive relationship about 2.5 years ago now, and I still suffer from the emotional stress that it caused me.

I had a guy come up behind me and put his arm around my waist last weekend in Vegas. Followed by "so where's the part at laaadies??" I jumped away from him and was like "oh no do NOT touch me". The guy seemed shocked that I wasn't charmed by his move and could only muster "wow, you're not nice at all. Not nice" as he…

You guys, I am really struggling with something. I had a girl who used to be my friend (time and some beyond disturbing antics on her part have left us as NOT AT ALL FRIENDS), who is about 6 years younger than me. When I met her, she told me a horrible story about being raped in college in Denver and eventually…

I was a college kid 8 years ago and I never heard of it. So, it's new to me!! Time to get my crack spoon ready for some Smirnoff Ice.

I am sad that they did not immediately remove it, however, I am extremely happy that they went beyond saying "sooorrrrrryyyyy" and actually donated money to a wonderful cause. I will count this as a win for them.

You guys I can't keep up with all these new ways to ingest alcohol. Tamponing, butt chugging, now huffing....can we pick one and stick with it? Although I will say my butt will be relieved to hear that its no longer the hot place to put alcohol.

I'm in such a mood this morning that the awesomeness of these women, coupled with the knowledge that they will be totally ignored by these asshats, made me cry.

I had a problem with the idea that hoop earrings and long nails and such are off limits to white people because that is "appropriating black culture". How, exactly, are white people supposed to dress? Isn't saying "white people don't dress that way" just as stereotypical as saying "black people all do [fill in the…

Teenage culture? I found it beyond obnoxious too. Maybe sticking her tongue out once would have been kinda sassy and cute, but DOOD. Too much. Stop it.

I would say wear what you like. I have a bit of a problem with the whole idea that certain races dress certain ways. What exactly are the clothes that white women wear? I understand things like Miley's bandanna and grill are over the top and disingenuous and really kinda gross, but I don't think that gold jewelry or…

So many issues you care about other than this but you take the time to comment...

I'm naming my next child Gucci Ass Diamond. So I'm glad they didn't pick that one, cause then everyone would be all "oh you just picked that because of Kim and Kanye!!" And I would have to be like uhh no!!! And it would have been annoying.

My sister's married last name is Budd. When she was pregnant the name Rose was suggested to her by EVERYONE. I went less traditional and suggested Toksum. She went with Devan.