So are you guys ever going to cover the NYC protests again or...? Last night LRAD sound cannons and pepper spray were used again on peaceful protesters and even more arrests were made. We need help, we need jail support, we need the media to accurately cover what's going on out here.

Jezzies! Have you ever had a friendship that slowly became toxic, awkward, and tense? I'm currently dealing with this situation right now with a formerly close friend who moved to the city where I live a few years ago. I don't really know if there's a discernable reason behind the awkwardness (the back story is long…

So many feelings right now. A month ago I spontaneously met this guy from OkCupid (of all places) even though I didn't feel ready to date. And he's INCREDIBLE. Never felt like this before. It's been a crazy month, we've been spending so much time together, we joke about getting married someday, and I'm falling in…

Ugh. I was an apartment manager for many years, and have only had to deal with a situation like that twice, but both times was just so uncomfortable and rattled me for days. SO it is normal to feel the way you are feeling.

I found it more interesting that only 30% of men asked for joint custody of their children in the 4th largest city in the country and yet MRA's still talked about "Bitches be keeping us from being fathers" trope. No, nobody is keeping you from being a father, cupcake.

We don't want to have it both ways. We don't want men paying for our dates; we want financial independence. We don't want sole custody; we want a world where men and women are considered equally responsible for parenting. We don't want female on male rape to be treated less seriously than male on female rape; we want…

The remarkable thing, to me, about this is the continuing dystopian fantasy about "women's privileges" maintained by these nutcases and far too many who don't pull out the guns, but complain privately. If you quiz them about what these "privileges" are, they'll tell you:

- women expect and get free everything
- women…

I talked to a dude once who described his experience emigrating to the United States from Mexico. He and everyone on his bus were legal immigrants, stopped at the border with El Paso by Mexican Federales. The cops boarded the bus, took every woman between twelve and forty into the desert, and returned them all two…

....I'm in that boat with you. We're on the "sprouted 20 holes in the bottom but still clinging to hope SS"

Holiday card? Or list of relatives to avenge?

Forced sex porn baffles me as a man. If you're engaging in sexual fantasies, a place where literally anything can happen, why do the women in your sex fantasies still not want to have sex with you? It's so fucking creepy.

FUCK THIS.

To be honest I breathed a sigh of relief when I read that it was fictionalized. Man my bar is so low nowadays.

I don't think anyone is arguing that false accusations aren't a really bad thing. Now if you think being falsely accused (or even convicted, taking into account the typical punishment) is as bad or worse than being raped, you're obviously off your rocker. But you haven't said that, so I'll give you the benefit of the…

As a natural hair wearer, I agree with her remarks. Now, granted, I wear my naturally 4c hair twisted into dreadlocks, and I am both a civil service AND and IT drone, so I do have a bit of latitude in my dress code. But I will say that how I got the idea for dreadlocks was watching older Black women that I worked…

SAME! I swear to god I could write the exact same post! While I no longer shop at VS some of my friends do, and last time I went with one I got sized. The lady tried to tell me I could be a B. There are massive gaps in my A cup bras, no way I can move up a size. I think it's a ploy to sell more bras.

I have to tell this story somewhere. Last week I was walking in Boston, and a man who had been sitting on the ground stood up and asked me for money. I said I did not have any cash on me and kept walking. He started to walk next to me and explain why he needed the money. I told him again that I didn't have any cash.…

Im so glad they got him and he's actually being brought up on this. A few weeks ago, I got physically assaulted on a rush hour 6 train in NYC. I know for a fact the guy was seriously mentally unhinged and that he was targeting blondes. He kicked another blonde girl before me, but then left her alone. He got to me and…

I liked how someone on my facebook equated guys talking to women on the streets with the sales people at crappy little mall kiosks, where you know they're not talking to you to be friendly, they're talking to you because they're trying to sell something. In the former's case, the product is penis.