The only other term I've heard for it is "ravaged", which gets across what you're saying: it's not a rape fantasy, it's a fantasy of having a man be so attracted to you that he just can't control himself or his lust, things get wild, all the clothing gets ripped off (ravaged), etc. The man's passion is what drives the…

I would have to agree; I was kind of hoping to learn of some elaborate, commonplace, but never-spoken-aloud male fantasy involving a real, straight man and exactly two fantasy men, but only one person has agreed with that version so far.

If Jezebel had an Officially Sanctioned Fictional Threesome, it would be [reader]+Cumberbatch+Hiddles, wildcard Idris Elba, discussed over brunch the following morning with Lupita Nyongo+Beyonce, wildcard Jennifer Lawrence.

I was afraid to Google it and then relieved. Although I find it hilarious that the description includes the guys high-fiving. I always assumed that the guys in that configuration would be studiously avoiding eye contact; never occurred to me that it might be a "bro" activity.

I'd have to agree, unless more people turn up in this thread to present alternatives.

Yeah, that was my guess too. Otherwise I can't figure out how gay sex gets 20% and an additional 25% are like, eh, I dunno about one dude, but throw a second dude in there and I'm all in.

Yeah, that is SUPER low on both counts. Jezebel alone accounts for the 51% of women who have specific Cumberbatch-Hiddleston-Elba fantasies and that doesn't even take into account the gads of women who paid good money for Magic Mike.

That doesn't sound half bad, actually.

Okay, I keep looking at this and I can't make sense of it:

Every bar in every college town hosts a "$1 shots for everyone wearing an I Voted! sticker" night. (And for the under-21s, I dunno, bowling alleys do something similar?)

You register by tying your name to a specific address. That address determines not only the state in which you're eligible to vote, but in many cases the local elections (state senate & representatives, county measures for things relating to budget or local laws, school board members, etc.), so it's important to…

Woman here. I also hate online dating, because I also get very nervous the first time I meet someone, and the nerves are compounded if the "someone" is a potential love interest. That said, it can be a really great option so I hope you'll reconsider it in the future if your circumstances change.

Yeah, I want a pair of Sorels and they sold out everywhere in DC last year. Time to get on the ball.

That sounds difficult as hell. I'd love to pretend that once I pick a Person, that's the only Person I will ever want, but I know in real life emotions don't necessarily stay inside our neatly-drawn boxes.

So, as an old (30), I definitely remember the relationship drama of college. VIVIDLY. It's very possible that you're giving off don't-tell-me-about-your-boyfriends vibes, but it's also possible that your friends are trying too hard to spare your feelings because they are uncomfortable about the fact that you're the…

That's good to hear - glad you enjoyed it and glad you found a way to get back where you really want to be. :)

Ooh, I'm not normally an MK fan, but that I like. Functional is key. Thanks for the Macy's tip! 50% off is huge - opens up a lot of their coats that I was ignoring because they were out of my range.

If mid-butt isn't a length, it should be! Cuffed sleeves are a nice touch. I really hate the feeling of wind sneaking into the sleeve, so I will add that feature to the alarmingly long list I'm starting to acquire.

My most memorable encounter was with a nutjob who ended up screaming, "You're hot and you're cold, you're red and you're green!" at me in the middle of the night on a deserted street. I honest-to-god don't even know what race he might have been, and he was less than 5 feet away from me.

I hadn't thought of LL Bean; why did I not think of LL Bean? There's a store not far from me actually. I guess I know where I'm going after work tomorrow!