Interesting to see a still from the set, but it's not the same photo exactly. His hands are in different spots — no sexy back-of-the-dress touching. Though I will grant she was probably in the same position for both photos.

Aside from all of the HORRIFYING implications that you already pointed out, does that dude not realize that the majority of women just aren't as into dicks as men are into boobs? I mean, what they DO may be great, but how it looks? You may as well send me a picture of a garden gnome. Ugly little fuckers, each and…

The existence of this Tumblr may be the greatest thing that ever happened to me, and also the worst thing that has ever happened to my productivity. Thank you and curse you.

FOR REAL. I just finished reading The Black Count, which I thought did a terrific job of covering that territory.

It's way better. Such a simple change, but so crucial in how it makes the recipient feel. Wish more people would take that advice to heart.

Ugh, that is way worse. In that case, strike everything I said and go for extreme side-eye. Perhaps make a sign that says CROSSING THE LINE and wave it at him whenever he's being a jerk.

I feel you on the job = social circle front. I went from being in a writers' MFA program in the Southwest to working in a software company in DC. The label wasn't "weird," but the combination of having a vagina and being an artist definitely made my coworkers unsure about what to do with me in the beginning.

So by "weird" you mean "awesome." :)

Make your boss aware of the situation, and ask your boss to make this dude's boss aware of it as well. Review your company's sexual harassment policies and talk to HR to find out what lines you can draw. Being informed might make you feel more powerful: instead of cringing while you wait to hear what awful thing he…

First off, no one handles this shit well in the moment, so don't beat yourself up because you didn't have a witty rejoinder the first time or because you're prepping yourself in advance. Seriously, you did fine.

Meher didn't use the word racist until her final paragraph, and then it was as a joke. She's not calling out "racism", she's talking about improving the ways we communicate about differences in ethnicity. Consider how nuts everyone has gone this last week alone over race. George Zimmerman assumed Trayvon Martin was…

I don't have sufficient sample size (because talking to IAs gives me rage), but in my experience a lot of these guys also tend to be wildly unhappy or unfulfilled when you get right down to it. But they still love to pat themselves on the back for being smart enough to accept the truth. In their evaluation, sure maybe…

Amen to all that.

If you shout ANONYMOUS three times into the Internet, can they hear you?

Dude, that is the perfect play structure for ME. Bring a book in there, get nice and cozy...perfect summer day.

THIS IS HOW WE FIX THINGS IN RUSSIAN SHARKSTATION!

And 2000. ;)

Shark Trek II: Wrath of Sharks

I immediately thought it was WashU. Seeing this picture gave me a massive pang of homesickness.

You're the second person to respond based on TV Dany. I was indeed thinking of book Dany. In Season 3, TV-Dany is a lot more "breaking the Unsullied out of Astapor" and she is indeed one of my favorite characters on the show; in Book 3, book-Dany is a lot more "crowd-surfing the adoring brown people in Yunkai".