Seriously. Lady has a voice.

The whole thing. The whole thing is just brilliant.

"until it's all desiccated and floppy like a Bunnicula zucchini!?!?"

I definitely think you should tell her. Then you will know you did what you could and it will be easier to move on from it. In my previous relationship we were together for over 3 years and he talked about marrying me, said he bought the ring I wanted but lost it, all this bullshit. Long story short, it turned out he…

I agree —- tell her. I'd say you have wrestled over this, that you really don't want to hurt her happiness, but that you would want to know if you were in her position. She could probably get an annulment if there was evidence he was doing this on their wedding day.

Wow. ON HIS WEDDING DAY??? He's about to walk down the aisle and look this woman in the eyes and say that he wants to spend his life with her in front of their friends and family, and he's sending dick pics to some other woman?!?

This parallels something that happened to me many years ago. Long story short, fast forward five years and he was still pulling the same shit but with a child and a pregnant wife. Tell her.

Tell her. If hes doing this shit on their wedding day, whats he going to do in three years? I would want to know. Plus if its this close to the wedding they can get an annulment, if that sort of thing matters to her. Dont be anonymous though, if you do tell her, it needs to be from a person, not an anonymous account.

Wow...ok. I gotta go with tell her. He's a lying sack of shit. Better to know before they have kids or something. Everything he ever told you is bullshit and probably everything he tells her is, too. I'm sorry if this hurts, but you don't marry someone else and keep stringing another person along if you love…

Ummmm yeah. Tell her. I mean.... I don't even know if it's the "right" thing to do so much as the thing that feels right, to me. If you do it though, don't do it totally anonymously. He duped you too, so you have nothing to be ashamed of. You also run the risk of being outed by him. By all means do what you need to do…

Wow, I can't believe you sent nekkid pics before googling! I am so goddamned old, I tell you what.

This is such a complex issue, but, yeah: there is a certain subsection of Iranian men who behave this way. Both here, and in the Mother Land. It is largely dependent on economic class (wealthy) and some leftover attitudes from the prominent landowners in certain areas. I've coined it the Little Prince Syndrome: little…

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PS- totally read the entire article in Persian Dad accent

my cousin is married to an iranian guy who paid her to lose weight after she gave birth to their twins. why, do you ask? what could provoke such asshattery?

"Have you ever heard of the "Bitch" stereotype?"

I have a "MIGRAINE" from reading this dude's shit. What the "FUCK!!!!"

That coupled with wanting to date a woman 20 years younger than him. (Yeah, those 5 extra years of puberty make us way more mature... whatever.) Don't focus on numbers, just the ones that are important to meeee!!

I do so enjoy the word 'nary'. Top marks.

Saying that someone had a clean record before this crime is a really good argument for mitigation when someone gets caught with a joint, or walks out of a store without paying for one of the items in his shopping bag. This 49 year old only had a traffic violation on his record, so why ruin his life for the simple…