I thought "laying pipe" meant taking a poo.

This is incredible. Any recommended links for those of us who'd be interested to read more about this topic?

My partner and I work in the same field, at the same level, with the same degree of success. When he gets good news about his job, we celebrate for days. When I get good news, he offers congratulations and then immediately sinks into depression about the fact that he didn't get the same good news as me. And expects…

They're not banning viewing, and so far they're not aiming to make such porn unfindable within the UK. It's just a ban on content creation.

Nope, the same stuff happens here in Europe all the time.

Nah dude, that makes it even better!

Sounds like he should just get a Cuddlr account: http://cuddlrapp.com/

This is something I love about NPR! So much personality. I love Sarah Vowell's voice. I love Starlee Kine's. I am the sole Planet Money listener who adores Zoe Chase's voice — I think it's even kind of sexy. Edgar Oliver is ridiculous/awesome.

I just want to say: I HATE the new Kinja variant on the Grays. I hate that comments I make are *never* visible to anyone. I hate that the space I used to think of as a community has completely silenced me because I'm not part of the in-crowd. You want to put us less-frequent commentators lower on the list—-fine.…

However, very often as adults, sometimes a partner does just try something. We should encourage continuous consent and open discourse, but I think there's a difference between starting to try something new in bed in the middle of the sexual encounter and CONTINUING to do something after someone says they don't want…

Hit the nail on the head. If your sex partner's perfectly willing to cause you non-consensual pain in order to gain themselves some sexual pleasure, they need to be ripped out of your life and thrown away like a dangling booger.

WORD. I think people who've had a lot of happy, consensual experience on the receiving end of anal sex will all come down on the same side. Before it can be awesome, it has to be comfortable. That means every single time, to be comfortable, you need to go slow, use tons of lube, have some anal foreplay, slow the…

There have definitely been times when I was in bed with someone who wanted to do something I wasn't into, he tried it, I said no, we moved on to other fun stuff ... it's not a big deal unless the person pressing for whatever-it-is is abusive.

This should win. Seriously. Insane middle ground between terrifying and fucking hilarious.

Exactly! Or second-guess myself — the decision would be out of my hands!

Anything that invites double fisting churros is fine in my book.

I know you're trying to make a helpful point in this thread, but here you come across as a complete dick and a xenophobe.

I think the most observant of the bunch think:

I've never met anyone who identified as vegan and refused to breastfeed, or had ethical objections to chewing on their lips, or going down on their partners, or whatever. I think these are mythical creatures.

Good lord.