It's not the same as a divorce. I said this elsewhere, so I'll just copy and and paste:

No, what's fucked-up is when you leave an abuser, and then people tell you they hope you get back together, or you're throwing your chance at love away, or you were such a perfect couple - why can't you just work things out? And that happens all the damn time.

Blah. Going through that now; friends that I was friends with for so long haven't spoken to me and when I went tearfully to their doorsteps to tell them I missed them, they said that it was just too hard to be friends with both of us. Big picture: learned who my friends were. Right now: Holy hell, the pain.

All you've really done here is scare me into not saying anything to anyone who is going through a break up. In fact, I will now avoid them altogether for fear of saying the wrong thing the wrong way. If I did have a break up, my boss would never know it from dealing with me. I keep that shit at home.

Couldn't agree more. I, too, have never had trouble with men, so I was amazed at how many people insinuate I'd never date again after a divorce. I also enjoyed the "Don't worry, you aren't a loser because you got divorced at 31". I was like "um, I didn't think I was, but it's nice to see where you stand".

How Erin Destroys Reality

Nazi women were often violent as a way to show off to the men.

I was a flyer back in my cheerleading days, and let me tell you... it takes a shit ton of balance, control, and trust. And despite everyone's best efforts, you fall, a lot. I'm very glad there was someone out there who didn't tell her, "no, you can't do this".

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

One thing to bear in mind (I'm speaking with my authority as an eighteen year old) is that red lips and those intentionally clumpy spidery lashes are a REALLY in makeup look for the kids these days. Half the girls on my college campus are rocking exactly this right now. Dunno exactly what point I'm trying to make with…

We can disagree about makeup choices, but I will agree with you that Miley does rock the bleached pixie. I would also like to add Pink to the list.

It just hit me that I know so much about Wrecking Ball by Miley, but I've never listened to the song.

That's got some truth to it, for sure - but a company that produces or sells a certain product will be able to give a lot more of it for free. If those vibrators are priced at $40, it is not like it costs the company $40/vibrator that it givse away. However, were the company to buy food, donate to a charity, it ends…

Well. That's enough world for me today.

I'm sorry, I don't understand the point of your reply (no snark intended). Dodai considers this not-shocking and boring and I consider it exasperating and overwhelming. I'm not allowed to state how I feel about it?

Here's some food for thought, though. I'm playing devil's advocate here, because I happen to agree with Dodai.

"It's so nice when someone isn't afraid to look stupid by asking a question."

Billy Ray Mullet. You get all the cookies for this.

You're in luck, I'm accepting applications all month!

Also, weren't all the dinos in Jurassic Park female?