Oh man I hear ya on the problems not being worth the money! I always figured that too. This is great in that you can do it whenever you like, and not have to schedule in a time. And personally I feel more comfortable not having to see the person face to face. The first week is free, which was enough time for me to…

It’s not corny at all! I really appreciate it. I’m an intelligent, independent minded person but when faced with losing my partner, the only parents I’ve ever known and the in laws I love, well, it doesn’t always lead to rational decision making.

Think I’m in love :) he’s a musician and keeps the same bizarre hours I do....lol waiting for him to get here right now...in the meantime, “Girls Night Owl’t”

Greatest small pleasures of the week: My students were excited when our butterflies emerged from their chrysalises. There was a smoothie sale fundraiser, and I got them all kiwi strawberry smoothies. They were over the moon. The school talent show was Friday, and there were two different numbers with kids doing the…

In the greys but just wanted to share that I’ve been doing online counseling for a month and a a half now and it seems to be working! I was skeptical at first, and my first assigned counselor didn’t quite match what I was looking for, but this second counselor seems awesome. It’s just so nice to talk to someone who’s…

I know this intellectually. But my heart keeps screaming that I must do everything in my power to make it work.

I used to think like that when I was younger. I was worried that something must be wrong with me because I didn’t have any friends as close as the ones on the Disney shows I watched, or that I was missing something major in my life because of it. Eventually I started telling myself that those were just TV shows, that…

Yes, exactly. I honestly think that’s why Sex and the City was so popular, specifically because it depicted the kind of grown-up friendship that’s so hard for an adult woman to come by. I know it exists, I’ve seen it in real life. But I don’t know how to replicate it for myself.

I feel you. The older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve realized that, while I have some great acquaintance types of friends, I don’t have a small group of really close friends like I’d hoped. Stupid adults, making it so hard to meet each other. :(

omg so many 805-ers representing in here. NPHS class of ‘91!

Yep, because private messages urging someone to kill themselves to better the world is just good, sound advice while doing so publicly is tacky, poor manners. Again, it’s like the supporters are ignoring that whole message, especially that particularly hateful part at the end. I don’t care how pissy someone is while…

I grew up in Thousand Oaks. I still live here. It is a restaurant but mostly a nightclub. Before it opened there was only 1 other nightclub in town and it is a western bar. Sunset Terrace is an Ed Hardy-flavored garbage place, that is haunted by date-rapists. Honestly I was 100% not surprised by the disgusting…

They remodel that mall every decade or so, and then it slowly dies until they remodel it again. It gets a little weirder every time.

Here’s the full text of that reply in case it gets taken down:

I hate the “I’m writing a negative review/I’m going to call corporate” type as much as the next customer service worker,but holy shit, nothing excuses being an ableist fuck-face and telling someone to kill themselves. Never ever ever. What the fuck.

Haha wow I can’t believe this made it on here. This was a friend of a friend. Half my Facebook feed is people in Thousand Oaks reposting this. It’s an awful small town for 200,000 people.

It’s weird how it started out on a friendly, almost conciliatory note, and then veered sharply into cray-cray. Like a sane person wrote it and left an asshole to finish it up and post it.

I’m in the grays but I do need some perspective please. I have recently been involved in a domestic violence incident.. My boyfriend of 7 years had way too much to drink, passed out, and woke up in a rage. He broke many things, hurt me and ripped my eating out. I called the police, he was taken, and I haven’t seen him…

I made for the first time ever breaded porkchops in grandmas iron skillet. How I’ve managed to go 37 years without doing this, I don’t know. They were magnificent. Now for some kitty cat & one slightly pornographic dog pic. Happy Saturday.

The University of South Alabama, disregarding gender stereotypes and putting a girl in robotics class on the cover of their special courses catalog. I was so happy to see this in my mailbox the other day.