If you have to give a guy an ultimatum, that probably does not bode well for your relationship. It is much better when the guy actually wants to get hitched - I never had to worry about my hubby-to-be because he told me he wanted to marry me early into our relationship, and we have not looked back. I The one case I…

So I just opened Google news and saw that authorities have found the body of the little girl who was missing in Colorado. Poor little lamb. I don't know her or her family, but I'm just horrified and shaken by this outcome, and my heart breaks for her and her parents. It also seriously makes me question whether I want…

That happened to me one summer when I was working in Paris. I was walking near Notre Dame and this guy started following me. I kept walking past the metro stop at Blvd Saint-Michel to see if he would continue to follow me, and he did. At that point, I whipped around, called him an asshole in French, then tore off…

Ha!

It's not that I had anything invested in Rhea Perlman and Danny DeVito's marriage, but I think that it kind of just makes you think, if these two people are breaking up after 40+ years of being together, then you can't really rely on any kind of milestone so that you can say, "Oh, we made it to X years, I think we're…

I watched, and thought it was great (although the big screen adaptation will forever be the definitive version for me). I particularly liked Alfre Woodard and Phylicia Rashad, as well as Queen Latifah. I wasn't as crazy at first about Rashad's daughter, who played Shelby, but she grew on me as the movie went on.

Well, right, I agree. The way he did it was completely shitty, but his reasons for leaving may have been valid (although that still doesn't excuse the manner of his leaving).

So I'm watching the Lifetime version of "Steel Magnolias" - I have seen that movie any number of times (i.e., the big screen version and now this one) and it never fails to make me a blubbering mess, but this time it's even worse because when they took Shelby off the machines, it reminded me of when the hospital took…

Sounds very promising! Just think, if you focus and get through this exam, then you have will have something to look forward to afterward.

I agree that the way he left her and her children was heinous, but his reasons for leaving her may well have been valid (sounds like she was pulling a lot of passive aggressive bull shit with him and picking fights over trivial stuff, from what I gleaned from her piece, and that could very well be only the tip of the…

I agree that the way he left her and the author and her children was awful and rather cowardly to boot, but it sounded to me like he was at the end of his rope with her. The kind of behavior she exhibited at the Christmas tree farm (i.e., being distant and passive aggressive over something trivial like laundry) is…

You need to forget about your family and friends - this is your life, not theirs. It sounds like you've already made your decision to end the relationship, and if that is what you really want, you should do it now before things get even farther along. Also, you are in no way responsible for anything he may do to…

What everyone else is saying. His kicking a hole in the wall caught my eye more than the hat trick (not that I don't agree with you that the hat trick is disturbing). At this point, I would be more concerned about his clearly violent temper than anything sexual he has done in the past.

Yeah, the prospect of so much time apart bothered us so much that we were even exploring the possibility of me flying out to London for a long weekend and staying with him, but between our upcoming wedding, the house hunting, and the fact that we're going to Europe over the holidays, I didn't think it would be…

Are you trying to bring problems into your relationship? You don't just surprise someone with something like that - you really need to have a discussion with your guy because for all you know, he might have a very unfavorable response to the prospect of bringing a third person into the bedroom. Additionally, finding…

We actually talked about that. It's ok, I'm just being whiny. It's not that he hasn't been away before on business, etc., but this is the first time he'll be gone for so long and since we live together and spend the majority of our free time together, it's going to be an adjustment to come home every night and not…

That annoys me as well. South Americans (and Latinos generally) are just as diverse as Americans are in terms of their coloring (case in point - my hubby-to-be is South American and is mostly Spaniard and Swiss-Italian with a little native blood, and has olive skin and dark hair but is very tall and built, while his…

Mr. Vivi just went overseas on a business trip, and will be gone for a few weeks. I already miss him.

I am pretty sure that was not her natural shade. And I dunno, I still think she looks better as a brunette.

True, but the character started out an outcast, and even though she got in with the popular crowd, she realized that she would never really fit in. My guess is they were specifically looking for a brunette for the part on the assumption that an attractive blonde wouldn't have worked as well.