Just text. You can say something to the effect of, "As to your question, I suggest we go to [_____]. They make awesome [_______]." Short and sweet.

Guys can be really flaky like that and it's infuriating. Perhaps you are not the only one he's been seeing and things are working out with someone else - this is a pretty common scenario. It really sucks, but there's not much you can do about it. If he disappears on you for a while and then comes back but doesn't have…

You are definitely overthinking this. Just text him and say, "This is wannabenomad from OKC. Just wanted to drop a line to say hi and so that you have my phone number."

Thanks :)

I am thinking of buying it for the sole purpose of whipping it out at my bachelorette party and reading excerpts out loud for the sheer hilarity of it.

God, I haven't laughed that hard in a while. COTD-worthy!

There's not much more you can do than what you are already doing. He didn't like your natural scent for some reason - I'm sure there are other guys out there who will.

You must include a little Bob Marley. Oh, and some Elton John ("Tiny Dancer", "I'm Still Standing"), Queen and the Stones. Sheryl Crowe could be good too ("Leaving Las Vegas"), Stevie Nicks and Pat Benatar. Oh, and I would include "Boys of Summer" by Don Henley too. Oh man, I could go on and on...

Nope - I went by myself to a pub one afternoon to watch a soccer match, parked myself at the bar, ordered a beer and an appetizer, and started chatting with a gorgeous man.........

Yep, just with darker hair.

Yep, it's a common thing. I had two come out of the woodwork recently, within a week of each other. I never gave them the time of day (it helps that I'm engaged to the love of my life, heh).

I know, that's why I said "technically" - she's at fault no matter what if she rear-ended him, but if he cut her off (i.e., by moving into her lane while she was in his blind spot), I'm not going to point fingers at her, even if she'll end up having to pay for the damage.

I have been where you are and there is really nothing to say except that I empathize and that I am so, so sorry. ::Hugs::

It is, technically, but I can see a scenario where she was in the truck's blind spot and the driver cut her off. Not saying this is actually the case, but it could be.

I think she's absolutely gorgeous and a pretty good actress ("Last of the Mohicans" is one of my favorite movies). I couldn't understand it either. Even worse was when Debra Winger fell off the planet - such a talented actress - although I think her disappearance from Hollywood was more a personal decision...

It's really pathetic, isn't it?

Meh, he was pretty brilliant, but I'd go with Alexander the Great or Caesar.

Probably a little bit of both. He seems like an epic douchebag, and she seems like a clingy, whiny fool for love.

Is it me, or do Tom Brady and Gisele Bundchen look more like brother and sister than husband and wife? It looks like they are long-lost fraternal twins or something.

I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm glad to hear that you're starting to handle things better. I'll have to try the dream journal out - for whatever reason, I've only had a few dreams about my dad since he passed, and I wish I could have more. I'm hoping they become a little more frequent.