It's SAUDER, not "Saunder".

Do it. Do it now. Don't prevaricate. I just parted ways with a god awful roommate and only wish I had done it sooner instead of give more chances etc. My new roomie just moved in and she couldn't be more fantastic. It's SUCH a huge change to enjoy being home again, enjoy my place/how it looks, communal living with…

I think even with trying to sacrifice (aka texting because you know the person you like/love wants it), a non-texter can only go so far. I know that I'm a very distracted texter/find it hard to engage in textversation and even though I try to make an effort when I can (time/circumstance allows), it still often comes…

I read it all! Nothing to add but just thought I'd let you know:)

Yah definitely! But it's mostly because I'm working at least 70 hrs a week at the moment, so most friends aren't going to meet me to go grocery shopping, go home and sleep lol. But my bf will, so he wins my time in that sense! But it's hard to make plans when other people are pulling the relationship disappearing act…

It's not so much about conventional attractiveness imo, a bar/club is just not the place for true conversation/something meaningful that would work into a LTR- most of the time. If it happens, it happens but it's the exception and not the rule. If you aren't into meaningless banter/innuendo/flirty chit chat/shooting…

Heterosexual female with a bf. I LOVE it, and neither of us had much of any sexual experience before the relationship. I had some rando drunk thing once where the guy went down on me but I didn't cum and that's a different story lol. I think it's alot about communication but maybe natural talent too? Because whatever…

I don't think it's a red flag. Unless you would prefer more communication in that medium in which case I would say to initiate it. I'm not into texting much unless I have something to say and can't wait 'til I'll see someone next but my bf loves to text every single day/be in contact, so he pretty much initiates that.…

I work in a call centre and just had a customer insist I get my manager on the line because surely HE could do something. The emphasis on getting HIM to do something was clear and made a few times. My manager is a woman as are many of the management staff there but that is besides the point.

I've spoken to a friend going through a very similar situation. But I caution to only do it if you are feeling calm/in control enough to tiptoe carefully, for an initial conversation. It also depends on your relationship. This happened with my best friend of 20 years (we met in Pre-school) so we have a sisterly…

HAHA, yes! This so much. I find I just go very quiet in these discussions now, because my complaining (not really, tho) that I have to remind my bf to exfoliate and moisturize or something is so dumb in comparison to friends who don't feel validated by their partners, etc. But I try to stay clear from over-sharing…

I honestly started looking forward to this on Monday! Grey & long-time lurker but the Jez community is a big part of my life! You guys don't know it but the thoughts, emotions and knowledge shared here have enriched my life- I've re-evaluated my thought processes, accepted new ideas, examined topics I'd never…

Same here. Might be because I had a tough week with a family member's health, or that I accidentally took 4 weeks of birth control instead of 3 so this period is the Red Wedding in my pants or that I'm working 7 days a week 8-12 hours a day, but yah- all the feels today.

Totally agree. Have talked this over already with my long-term boyfriend that in the future I'm amenable to him staying home full or part-time (aka this would be ideal for me/us if we can afford it) but that if he did, he would be expected to take on more of the housework. I'm not saying I wouldn't do any, and am…

I live in Vancouver (check out my username, holla) and have noticed the same thing. It only seems to be getting MORE popular and especially with the under-30 set. I can't fathom why!

Try different techniques (long, slow licks, quick lapping, etc) at different locations and ask her feedback after each one. Also she may be squirming because she likes it. As for BJ's same thing- positive communication - ie) omg I love when you do this, baby please do that thing again or you know what I've been…

How do you check for bedbugs?

I'm so glad! Thank you so much for the info. I'll be making an appt with my GP soon! and for my bf too!

Really?! I always read you had to be born in 1991 or after! Awesome!!

In BC it's only free for those born 1991 or younger, I misssd it by one year! I too want to know where these dates come from!