Well, obviously not the Jewish ones.

Actually, you open yourself up to "anger, harassment and violence" When you provide a "justification" because creeps that don't take no for a answer will twist your "justification" into "s/he wants me" any which way they can. A clear statement, of "I'm not interested, never been interested, and will never be…

As your anecdote aptly illustrates, we all have these experiences, but It's very rare to hear a woman lamenting being friend zoned.

Women do not "automatically friend zone" someone for being nice and deliberately choose to date assholes unless they are carrying some very heavy psychological baggage. If every woman you know is this damaged, you might want to consider what this says about you and your life choices and make some changes.

If you were "not up for consideration" as a boyfriend, it means that these women didn't want a relationship with you. Telling someone it's because "they're so nice" or "I just think of them as a friend" is a nice way of saying "I don't want sex or a romantic relationship from this person". The reason we use these…

Their very hypothetical previous success has fuck all to do with me. In no universe does it give them permission to touch me, persist in talking to me when I've told them to leave me be, or follow me out to my car like fucking serial killers.

Oh god, this bullshit idea again? Sex doesn't just magically "become" consensual if it started out nonconsensual. Consent doesn't work retroactively. It doesn't erase transgressions.

"I thought the store was into it actually. In fact I remember thinking, 'these alarms are so loud. I must be doing a really good job taking these diamonds!'"

Can you unintentionally come across this judge and unintentionally hit him in the nuts with a handbag full of bricks?

I thought the alarm was a siren call, dragging me in there and telling me to take what I like.

From another article:

Yep. I read one article in which he said he "recognized" the "signals" from other girls. Which to me suggests that he has done this to multiple women in the past. Really chilling.

I'm sure there are a lot of people who support the judge's decision, but I really am grateful that we live in an age where something like this happens, and the survivor of the crime can see that a lot of people are siding with her. Can you imagine if this happened 20 years ago (and I'm sure things like it did), but…

"I know the jewelry store's door was locked, and I know the alarm went off when I broke the window, and I heard it going off the entire time I was taking the jewelry, but I didn't think they were serious."

I've read that, I think it's called "The Only Moral Abortion is My Abortion." It really makes you sick to your stomach. There's some serious cognitive dissonance there.

That's actually exactly what I was thinking of when reading this story. I remember a while back I read an article or blog post or something that I think was called "My Abortion is Special." It was about how anti-choice (and not just casually anti-choice, but like the ones you're describing who are actually clinic…

She reminds me of women who call up Planned Parenthood and ask if they have a back entrance because they don't want their friends picketing outside to see them go in. And two days later is outside again with pictures of bloody fetuses.

I can't speak for Gov. Brewer but there is a certain type of person who, when it comes to those near and dear to them, see no discernible difference between -didn't do it- and -didn't mean to do it- "My little Johny didn't mean to hurt you so why are you getting so upset? Can't you see he's sorry/ couldn't help it?"

You know, it always amazes how capable conservatives are of convincing themselves that their experiences are unique and special. Jan Brewer reminds me of the people who are opposed to food stamps and welfare, despite the fact that they relied on government assistance to get back on their feet once upon a time…

"the woman whom her son allegedly sexually assaulted". Sometimes people take the need to be PC too far. He did not Allegedly sexually assault her, he Did sexually assault her. He was found to be not responsible for his actions because of his mental illness but that doesn't change the fact that he Did sexually…