Hi all! I haven’t been around much lately, so here’s an update. First up, the loveliness that is Catita:

I also turn stress inward. Try to practice mindfulness around it - when you have a negative thought, stop and label it as just that, a thought. Then remind yourself that it is the result of a belief you hold, and it isn’t true.

Hey all let’s raise a glass of anything, yes? Cheers! For me it’s an Italian red wine and also a bottle of seltzer. #hydrate So, The Bartender offered to make me dinner, and make dinner he did. All things I liked/I’ve ordered at restaurants, and he told me he was learning my palate. He also had wines that I loved, and…

She is gone!!!

Hi Jezzies! I was wondering if anyone has advice with how to politely deal with a coworker who gives unsolicited advice. I eat lunch almost everyday with another woman at work who started working at our office a few weeks after I did, and while she is mostly quite nice, she has a tendency to give me (and everyone…

Empowerment my ass. I have no patience for this sugar daddy/baby bullshit. It’s fucking weak ass shit for people looking for a shortcut in life and wanting society to accept it as some savvy entrepreneurial move. Ha. No.

I cannot wait for this dumb tiny sunglasses trend to die.

Blackest Coachella performance

On April 15, 2018, Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter scalped America bald when she gave the blackest performance Coachella has ever seen.

Please stop giving the Daily Mail attention. It’s a racist, misogynist hate-filled rag.

Stop drinking. Seriously. I love alcohol, but for a while I was drinking too much and I found that it was causing more widespread issues than I thought.

About two years ago, my husband got on a health kick and we bought a stationary bike. We rode that sucker literally to death and had to get a new one, and I’m still riding four times a week.

Oh yawn, another baby. They have so many babies, I wish one of them would have something interesting, like a giraffe or a toucan.

“TMZ is reporting that Khloe Kardashian, believed by many to be the best and most endearing Kardashian sister”

I don’t really know very much about this family, but for some reason what I do know of Kris Jenner is it possible that she arranged for the whole child/cheating thing to happen within 48 hours of each other? For ratings? Or, is my mind just rattled with conspiracy theories because I read too many political tweets.

I’ll be real honest — as someone with bipolar 2 (having a down swing for the past three weeks — it will eventually end, just hasn’t YET), reading her talk about judgement is super real. We have to destigmatize mental illness — and calling it mental illness also feels wrong to me. I didn’t catch this like a cold. I…

Right? When my ex cheated I wrote an entire blog post and blasted it all over social media. It was cathartic at the time but about a week later I was like hmmmm maybe should’ve gone another route...

Thanks. This was just the final straw for me. I’m hopeful that she will find a new place and be out by May 1st so this can end. Of course, now I have a whole new crop of issues to think about... like if I’m going to bother with a new roommate.

last week she went into my bedroom and stole alcohol I had hidden there

Hey guys I know I haven’t been commenting as much as used to. I just got out of a 11 yr relationship and I feel kinda lost, actually I feel very lost and sad as fuck. My whole life is there, his family meant the world to me, we adopted a dog together and that’s the thing that’s been hurting the most I can’t watch…