YES. Narcissists and social media are the absolute worst. How’s this for fun? Guy I dated for 2 months who pretended to like me then drop me one day, block me on text and tell me to never talk to him again after I reached out to him and said ummm what happened and he never gave me a substantial reason just said, “I…

Oh the game is still alive and well unfortunately. I experienced a sly narcissist recently and he was a 43 post-divorcee. His main thing was going to bruch bars and getting sloshed (not with me) but he did mention it which I found....odd but mkay. Treated me like a queen for two months, then dropped me like a rock and…

This is incredibly frustrating for women though also to have so many expectations of us and forgetting the fact that we are HUMANS. Meaning, we are not robots, we cannot gauge our emotions 24/7, what roadblocks will happen at our jobs, in our life, with family, etc. What is this ‘queen’ bullshit? Everyone is a fucking…

I think the Netflix special as someone said showed a whole experience of people doing it - I think it was based in Orlando? Not sure. But yeah! Enjoy the mountains and city to the max! Great great bird watching there. :) 

Hola! I am SO glad you are enjoying Panama! Nice! Let me know when you hit the fish market next to Casco Viejo for some ceviche. I miss buying allllll the ceviche mmm mmm mmm. Also tread carefully with the ayahuasca bc everyone brain chemistry is different so one person’s nice, happy reaction can cause another to go…

Uhhhhhhhhh what happened to Groupthink? 

Went looking for used condoms?! WHAT?! Was she a nun? Ummmm people have sex like rabbits in college!

Girl, you did NOTHING wrong. There are a ton of stories about ‘this girl’ and my sister’s roommate was one of them. They are passive aggressive AF, they are embarrassed about something about THEMSELVES but will do anything in order to deflect that, not wanting anyone to find out by insulting, gaslighting, and being…

It amazes me - AMAZES ME - how some people (and he was old enough to know better) can be so inconsiderate - just BEYOND inconsiderate to other people for sheer impulsive reckless behaviors like this. Like fine, dude. Be completely impulsive IN YOUR OWN HOME. Not when someone else is sharing a living space. My GOD. I…

Usually peeps this age who are going through some seriously deep shit (beginning stages of things like alcoholism/other mental disorders) will blame the WORLD but not themselves until they hit a rock bottom, find humility, and finally admit their shit. That’s when some come around and apologize. But sadly most stay…

Did she know he was a lazy asshole before they married because that is a HELL NO.

Holy FUCK what a fucking CREEP. Dude was a serious narcissist to lie about hanging with YOUR friends and how people dumped their bfs for his (probably hideous) ass. SO glad you got out of there as he sounds like he may have been some kind of predator too to lie to such extremes. :( 

Sadly, a lot of parents that age are experts in denial as well. They KNOW she is mentally ill but their pride/ego can never admit it so they choose to turn the other cheek which is super sad bc with therapy, she could have been so much healthier/happier/sane. The stigma that therapy is bad and mental illness can’t…

As someone who also suffered (not that drastically because I had a nervous breakdown and begged for help) from an eating disorder, it’s almost as bad as living with an alcoholic or addict. They are in SUCH denial (I was) and will deny any kind of truth and will get defensive to ANYONE who would try to approach us with…

Thanks, Pumpkin! I sure hope it’s a good snooze so I can avoid the facts that someone was handling my bum hahaha. :) 

Hi Phoebe, thanks for the tips! I will definitely try to obey them as best as possible. I’m kind of nervous but I do hope I sail through and don’t remember anything and there are NO cute docs handling my bum haha.

Thanks, OW! I WILL ask for those drugs! AHEM! OLDWOMAN MENTIONED...DRUGS?! I WANT THEM!

Good for you. As we age I feel we can easily pinpoint assholes faster. And now I avoid them at all costs if they try any condescending bullshit with me. Nope, you won’t be my friend. 

Agree 1000% I just felt something was...off. And I always felt shitty after she would do those sly manipulative tactics to knock me down a peg to boost herself up. I started loathing getting texts from her even up to the end and just finally had it. I can imagine how her ego must have been totally shock SHOCKED that…

I liked the top vid - like them better than Beyonce. But the phrase, “good vibes only” needs to die.