Woo way to go for self care! This year I told myself I am going to do things I never could with my ex for whatever reasons. I’m single and last weekend ran my first half marathon at the Disney Star Wars run and did not get dragged across the finish line! I was very happy I did not die. Weekend before I did something…

#DECEASED

Say it in a way that will most obviously annoy her back that way she starts avoiding it. She’s obviously trying to get her way and have you react and act on what she suggests. If she tries it again, I would look super non-chalant/bored and say “nah, I’m good. But thanks!” And walk away. Or say “Why is it you’re so…

Same. A close friend is a rehab/detox PA and he sees it also all the time - people in their twenties and early thirties passing from pancreas/liver failure. They also look about 10 years older at the time too because of the devastation to the organs. So sad.

A close friend of mine is a detox/rehab P.A. and he says there are way more people in their twenties and early thirties that die of liver failure/pancreatitis due to solely alcohol abuse than people realize. It isn’t advertised but it happens all the time. Extremely sad.

I dunno - as my Dad has aged, his forehead has gotten tighter and he’s been out in the sun most of his life. (To my envy).

I live in Orlando and it boggles us as well - (those of us who live and work here) We actually look at them as if they are some sort of new species of humans because we just don’t. get. it. It’s a fake fairyville in the middle of Central Florida with rides and expensive shops/hotels. I love going maybe once a year to…

I think most of us could benefit from a 12-step program. Helps so many people in more aspects than addiction. Ghosting is rough...it may mean he’s seeking solace through growing on his own now.

Oh wow, SO much good advice here so I’m a bit late. But yes, CONGRATS on leaving that abusive ass and focusing on YOU. Sometimes when you get out of something horrible like that, your life feels like it’s at it’s bottom. But there’s only up from here! Don’t overwhelm yourself right now. Self care and healing are…

She never said he was lazy. She said he ignored the care it took to manage it. Lots of people with these types of illnesses do the same. You’re being unnecessarily critical of Beet’s comment. It was in no way unsympathetic. She was sharing a relation to someone with it and she’s allowed to.

Hiya! First off - congrats on the new horse! That’s amazing - you guys are going to build awesome memories going forward. With that said - as a fellow equestrian - YES to barn drama. It’s like high school for grown ass adults - almost like a playground that allows them the excuse to be petty children. I blame it all…

Holy shit good for you - that is an ABSOLUTELY valid reason to kick anyone out of your home. She seems to having alcohol abuse issues from your previous posts so hopefully she will be able to get some help for that bc it sounds like consequences are happening and behavior like stealing your shit - not normal/okay.…

Totally agree. The articles and content Years ago seemed very researched and funny/interesting and thought-provoking. Now it’s so random and spotty plus having to scroll through endless ads is a drag.

Hard stop. No you can’t. Not what she’s doing here. Perhaps you have. But I’ve lived overseas my whole life as an American so I know first hand when people bullshit like this. And yes, she IS bullshitting. Sorry.

Love the trying-to-be-a-foreigner-who’s-learning-English BS. Girl, just bc you lived overseas for sometime doesn’t mean you adopt their language and lose your native tongue. So cringe-worthy. I have a friend who does this in meetings and I can’t for the life of me figure out the why of it but it’s maddening. She’s has…

They are (and I even feel bad saying this) THE WORST. And they are all like THIRTY MINUTES LONG.

This is so nice to hear bc I always look like a sweaty MESS after runs. Plus I never knew how really to go up and talk to random guys after runs.

I do not know much of the northern or central states because I’m a FL native so I can honestly sell you on a few things down here. No snow (but snow IS lovely), beaches year-round if you like the ocean. GREAT scuba diving from North FL down to the Keys. I live in Orlando which is generally pretty laid back even though…

Oh my god I am right there with you. Later 30's single here and it. is. BRUTAL.

in a mug so bland and beige it keeps getting overlooked at TJ Maxx.