In some ways, it is true that white women have privilege over MOC. But in others, their male privilege “wins”. It’s a continuum and we can’t deny the intersection of gender, race, and class. Everyone forgets class when I think it’s the thing that often most controls.

His victim doesn’t get any opportunities for learning, so no.

It’s simple: if you are a famous man, and you rape women, you will get a pass. If you are a college athlete, you will get a pass. If your victim is female, no one will give a shit about her or your crime.

Actually, yes, I can say that I did better than Parker at 19 because I never raped anyone. Interesting that you are defending his rapist ass and have such terrible spelling, grammar and logic ... shows something about his supporters.

Nope. Only a total idiot and asshole thinks that an unconscious woman is consenting to sex.

Nope. Not even a little bit. He wasn’t “declared innocent”, he was acquitted. The second time. He was convicted the first go-round.

If you’re okay with giving cash to a rapist, that’s fine, but this movie is not so “important” that we should all cast our morals aside to line Parker’s pockets. Read a book if you want to learn about Nat Turner. It might even be more accurate.

You’re far too nice to this garbage person. Knowing that Nate Parker’s victim was a white woman, raped by a few black men, it absolutely disgusts me to think that had she not died, she wouldn’t be allowed to talk about her own rape under this assclown’s mandate.

Let me guess, you’re a rapist.

There are other ways to get “the message” without giving your money to a rapist.

Honestly, I don’t even think he deserves an “agree to disagree”. He’s saying that white women cannot talk about their rapes or rape in general if the perpetrator is a black man. That is so fucked up and silencing.

Nope. As a woman, I get to comment on rape. As a man, you absolutely do not. This man is a rapist. I will not be silenced.

You’re weirdly defensive of your wife, who you admit has rage issues and has lost her temper on your child on multiple occasions.

What does your partner think? Honestly, changing a little baby’s name is pretty easy, and it’s the time to do it.

Talk to your other friends beforehand. It’s not sharing someone’s business in a malicious way, it’s a kindness.

Do you share a car? Because that shit is unacceptable. I have a relative who was killed by a drunk driver who claimed that her “depression” made her do it.

That you know of.

Oh yes, this. I have a terror of all authority now. If someone gets angry around me, I shut the hell down. I’m over 30!

Okay, jumping in again, as the child of a parent who had these issues: your wife needs counseling to get her rage under control. There is absolutely never an acceptable reason to abuse children or dogs. Screaming at a child is abuse. Period.

So, my mom used to hit us and she would apologize afterward. She kept doing it until I was big enough to hit back. I have no respect or love for her now, as an adult, because hitting children is one of the most fucked up things you can ever do.