I found out very recently that a lot of people do this. And, it's kind of improved my life, since this now allows me to give the benefit of the doubt to many people who use the under orientation. However, if they use the under and have no pets, then I still viciously judge them.

In my opinion, pets (and potentially kids) are the only valid reason for deviating from the proper orientation.

(Thank you! The Little is two, I am just incredibly lazy about this extra weight. Hashtag YOLO and all that.)

Oh no, you misunderstand! I ask out of curiosity, not because I don't believe a larger woman can have abs. I'm not plus-size but I certainly have a lot of extra weight since Little ScreenName came along, and it's all in my stomach. But I have what I call "an ab" that looks a little like this. She seems to have…