How does one get to be twice-gooched?

Ugh. So either I'm a rape apologist or I don't believe in male rape. No, I just think the power relations between men and women are very different and so you can't make a blind, 1 to 1 comparison between situations like this one with no context.

My point was just that you were taking a secondhand account of his thought process (from kitty pride's blog entry) and saying, "he thought that". But yeah, an icky and complicated situation. Very interesting.

Ha, I guess so. I still don't really understand how it all works. But if you click my star, I'll click yours *wink wink*. Just so we're clear, I'm giving you explicit verbal consent to touch my star thingy.

You're making a false equivalency. Name-checking patriarchy doesn't validate your switching of the genders to prove your point. Of course it would be different if it had happened to a woman. But it isn't the same situation. This guy has the same protections under the law, but the performative aspect of gender makes…

Okay, Dan Savage has some words for you on the consent thing...I agree, it's an icky situation but assault? Was it assault when he grabbed peoples' hands and put them on his dick? Clearly it was because he only gave nonverbal consent. I don't want to fight you on the internet, but after watching the video and seeing…

You are extrapolating what someone else (kitty pride?) is guessing about his inner thoughts and calling it reality. AKA, you are taking hearsay and making it, "he thought this in his heart". I agree the racial implications are fascinating, but let's not jump to conclusions. Also, do you think a blurry, dark photo of a…

So the only real consent is explicit, verbal consent? Every time, for every situation, you must get verbal consent? My point is that the dick-sucking is just more of the same celebrity-machismo. He is selling his sexuality and image, and a fan took it too far (or not? We don't know their relationship or if it was…

1. He could have known her from before. Also, apparently he was soliciting fans to grab his dick through his pants. A blowjob could be seen as a natural extension of that (pardon the pun). Also, yelling loudly for sexual gratification is not the only way to acknowledge consent (although I do understand your…

WHY oh why on all gawker media does someone get labeled a troll for disagreeing with someone else?!

You do not know he didn't give her consent.

YOU seem to know. All of you are starting with the assumption that he was sexually assaulted, which is giving the victim the benefit of the doubt. Which I agree with. But it also may be distorting what actually happened.

Ha, my roommates got me into MotoGP and I think he's the most interesting rider, but they get all butthurt when I cheer for him; they hate him. They think he endangers riders and gets into crashes a lot.

I think it's a huge waste of a natural resource and unneccessary

That's where the clutch should be...Front break on the other side.

So now Boston and Brooklyn are good teams?

We can expect "a lot more action" from the new Star Trek movie? Because that's what Star Trek is about, and has always lacked. Action.

Is it tough to log in sometimes because you forget how many h's there are in your sn?

I feel the same way. Maybe it is a vestige of that stupid geek debate over trek/wars but it does feel wrong. Almost, grandiose. You dare have the hubris to helm both Star Trek and Star Wars?!

If he's a cocksucker, then so is every other NBA free agent who went to another team.